Suggest Treatment For Mild Personality Disorder

My daughter appears to have mild personality disorder and she has a 4 month old baby. What are the best treatments please? She developed an eating disorder at 15 and has had lots of counselling , lots of which she didn t engage with. She is 34 now , can be in your face somewhat and has had difficulty with her siblings and her father ( he is hard on her ). There is huge dependence on me . Keeping down jobs is a problem. Very engrossed in herself but has a good heart and she relates well to children and they to her. Quite creative with fashion etc. I was thinking of acupuncture with a good practitioner also CBT. No friends or self worth. Spent a lot on her over the years Her Me what