Suggest Treatment For Orgasmic Dysfunction

I am a senior and always had trouble reaching a climax, it was so frustrating. I would some times just work myself up to having a climax without having sex which I would like to know is this strange for me to do. I am a widow now and don t really feel like getting together with another man.My husband and I never really had a good sex life, I just couldn t reach my climax fast enough for him.