hi, my 25 year old daughter came home from college a different person. i got her near me by just not paying my bills one month and moved her close by my house so she could come and eat and see us just a 2 minute walk.. no room at my house taking care of my mother 24/7 alzheimers. then mom passed away and arielle mosied her way into my house. not good timing. i got very depressed with my mom dying. i think i know which to get treated first but how do i make her do any of it? i am not a good example i know. but she shopuld not just join up with my depression. i cant afford all the different things she needs. dont want meds for any of this by the way. some sort of irritable bowel always having trouble after she eats. and she watches what she eats so much now, but still has trouble daily. low grade depression, never motivated to look for work or go to bed and wake up normal hours, some sort of low grade depression with all the things that come with depression, like not cleaning up after herself ever , making really bad choices.etc.i have tried so many times to asking her if something happened at school and she says no., broken nose that affects how much o2 shes getting. she can breath , but definitely less air going up her nose. and her teeth have been moving alot since she left for school. she needed braces we knew when she was 11 but her dad would not pay for half and i am just making it. im afraid they are moving too much and will affect her jaw health. which do i have her tackle first. she has seen me and how i dont get help.i have another daughter and still need to pay attention to her and all that is going on in her young life. my older daughter needs help and i dont know where to begin. shes angry with me. im always trying to get her to get a job or something. but i really think she has to deal woth all of this or she is just gonna be such a mess in her 30s . how horrible.
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Tue, 21 Apr 2015