Suggest Treatments For Hair Removal

i am 20 years old male, both of my parents are indian. i have lots unwanted hair, for some reason i m the only one who has lots of hair in my family everyone on my father side and my mother side are normal, even siblings except for me. my mother did have some problem having kids and she did take some medications to help her with pregnancy and i m not sure if it is side effect from those medications (i am the oldest child). i did some research and i m not sure how to get rid of these problem, to be honest i cant even were cut off shirt or shorts, i have to have shirt that goes to elbows. is there anyways i can remove this hair permanently because i m only 20 and i have hair coming out of ears already.
please help me i need to feel like 20 years old.
how can i remove hair permanently? (preferably doing at home bc i cant afford to go to the doctor)