What Causes Blood In Urine And Erectile Dysfunction?

my name is patrick malley my email is pmalley@cogeco .ca I have a very personal problem and as much as it may seem like a joke it is very serious to me about a year ago i had a scope done because I have been having a problem with going to the washroom 3-4 times a night I was told it was to also check my prostate im sorry I cant remember the name of the test but it was putting a camera thru my penise after the test I bled for about 3 days every time i urinated but I had thought it was normal over the period of a few months i had noticed that when having sex with my wife when I got an erection my penise was bending it is now to a point where it can look around corners and Im sorry I dont mean to sound funny but my wife says she can feel the differance and its somewhat uncomfortable for her she is not feeling right about oral sex as it just dosent feel right to her I have had moments where i lose the erection because I know it is bothering her and to be honest with you I think its ugly as hell I am 56years old and this is the last thing I need in my life when I had asked the doctor who has taken over for the doctor that did the scope because he had a stroke she told me there is a surgery that can be done but I would lose lenght not again meaning to sound funny but I will admit that I am not well endowed and that idea does not seem ok with me at all I cant seem to get a straight anwser at all about what the hell happened tommorrow I see my gp and I will ask him if there is something that can help with keeping the erection but I feel like he doesnt want to get too involved in telling me what is going on or what can be done about it can you please help me to understand this is very hard on me and my wife and I dont know where to turn thank you so much for your time and understanding Pat