What Is The Treatment To Increase The Libido?

i married for seven years... i have two children... i truly don't enjoy sex with my husband.. i love him.. so i find him sexy... i don't enjoy sex with him at all.. he fails to turn me on.. usually this is how it goes.. i am turned on for one reason or another.. i go to him.. we sleep together.. i completely don't enjoy his approach.. i don't think he will ever change because he thinks he is the best sex provider ever.. whenever i tell him when we need to see a doctor he gets extremely offended... so i thought maybe if i am extremely excited i will enjoy it.. you know like when you are really hungry.. whatever you eat seems to be delicious.. so i want to take some medication that increases my desire to an extent that i can enjoy it.. i don't enjoy it enough i don't even get wet.. what do you think?