Can You Shrink The Size Of Your Inner Labia Without

can you shrink the size of your inner labia without surgery . I'm 15 and I madturbate a lot and my inner labia is flappy , and kinda looks like ground meat. I won't let my boyfriends look at it and we've been having sex for the past 6 months . he's starting to get anxious . so is there a way to do it myself. ?