Hello Sir I M 35 Yr Old Married (7yr Completed)

hello sir i m 35 yr old married (7yr completed) having one daughter since 5-6 months i lost intrest in sex even my organ doesnot tighten even if i want to do sex i dont feel like doing pls suggest any ayurvedik medicine which dont hav any side effect. in past 4-5 month i went through one incident due to that i started getting attracted towards guys also bit i want to come out of that feeling nd want my sex life back. pls suggest any medicine