Hey Doctor. I'm On The Fence On Where Or Not

hey doctor. I'm on the fence on where or not I have balinitis or herpes. I have small red sores on the tip of my penis and I looked at pics of herpes and that's not what it looks likes, but aRound my pubic area I have the small white balls (that look like ingrown hairs? ) and when I pop them a small white ball comes out and the pore bleeds. Can you help me?