Hi I Been Having Pain In My Privates Sense January

hi i been having pain in my privates sense january .it lasts from few days to wks at a time ,when i pee the pain goes away.i have tested positive for genital herpiesyrs ago . t most of the time it seems to start after sex not right after but soon im 40 have high blood pressure not over weight other wise in good health .pain is in my penis and other places around ther