Hi, I Had Asked An Online Doctor Before About Using

hi, i had asked an online doctor before about using lidocaine 5% in order to help me with my first intercourse. I purchased the product and tired it on my arm and i am not sure how to use it specifically to help me during my first intercourse because i experience severe pain in breaking my hymen. i have went and saw a doctor but he didnt find the need to send me to a gyniecologist so at the moment i am not sure how to use lidocaine. can you please give me directions on how i am suppose to use it and if or is there any other thing i can do to help me.