Hy Hope U Guys Are Good I Want To Know

hy hope u guys are good
i want to know that discharge of male n female at same time is necessary for conceiving and this is my 3rd year of get married and i have no baby yet we are trying but till i didnt conceive. I got discharge during pri sex n ejaculates was outside the vagina and after my discharge ejaculates got inside and discharge is it right way??? for getting pregnant