I Have Herpes I Got Them From A Woman And

i have herpes i got them from a woman and she didnt tell me tha she had them and i went to the er and they said i have a genial herpes infection but didnt no blood work i want to get rid of this once and for all bc im embrassed to do anything and i feel like i cant have a relationship with a woman what can i do to get rid of this its the first time i ever had this in my life is a cure for this disease please help me