Since I Had My Last Child 4 Years Ago, I

since i had my last child 4 years ago, i have been gradually feeling worse and worse. i am now 43 years old and experience bad anxiety nightmares followed by panic attacks, racing heartbeat, tingling and muscle weakness. i have also been very depressed,low self esteem,no interest in sex, fatigue,aching joints,loss of motivation,heartburn,want to eat unhealthy foods, bowel problems and feel generally unwell, skin itchy and dry,change in my hair condition. constant worry about health. i drink bottle red wine a night to get to sleep,