So This Is Weird, But I Have 3 Questions, 1.

so this is weird, but I have 3 questions, 1. How do I best shave my vagina, so that there are not bumps/so it does not bleed, which it rarely does. Also 2. what shaving cream and after acre products should I use for best results. and 3. is it normal that I didn't bleed when I lost my virginity/will I bleed next time then?