We Took A Cat When Daughter Moved To A No

we took a cat when daughter moved to a no pet place. She told me she (the cat) was abused as a kitten so would take her a while to like us. MY husband feeds her and my son gushses over her and she will seldom let me even pet her. she loves husband and son. waits all day for them, runs to see them, she just hates me? Ann