Yes, Please... I Have Been My Mother's Caregiver (89 Yrs.

yes, please... I have been my mother's caregiver (89 yrs. old) for 16 yrs. I am totally worn out, but no one else in the family is willing to help me. We had to sell the family home recently, to stay afloat... and are staying with my mom's elderly sister (temporarily). We are out of monies and my mother shows ALL the signs of sun downers. Where can I get help? I believe she has had this disorder for years, but untill this last week I had never heard of this. She acts like she hates me! I want to be fair and good to her, but it is getting so bad now, I fear she is going to do something stupid. She has gone to psychologists, psychiatrists and her Primary care regularly. No one has said a word about this possibility. Help me please... I want to do the right thing, especially if she can't help herself. Thank you, Betsy