Question: I had a fling with a woman while I was working in Kiev in the Ukraine [which has a fairly high incidence of HIV]. We always wore a condom, but had oral without [I performed cunnilingus]. I had a cold [although not a sore throat] at this time we had sex and I performed cunnilingus on her an hour after cleaning my teeth [although there was not bleeding when I spat out and I have a soft tooth brush]. About 10 days/ 2 weeks after the first time I had symptoms of a migraine for 2 days - feeling very weak, aching body, headache; it lasted for 2 days [the third day I was better but a little weak]. Then a weak later after another poor night's sleep I awoke to a headache and tiredness [but not the aching body]. I am concerned because this was about a week after I had recovered from a cold and I thought that I should have built up immunity. It did occur after I had a vey poor night's sleep [I had been online I could not sleep after]. Clearly I had a virus of some sort and I wondered whether this was primary HIV infection. Also shortly after we met i had a few spots on my chest [around 5], which they went quite quickly. My oral hygiene is good - I do not have lesions or ulcers in my mouth or bleeding gums. Sometimes I spit out small amounts of blood with my saliva when I clean my teeth although it was not the case at this time. There was no menstrual blood, but I am concerned.