Can HIV Be Contracted Through Non-penetrative Sex?

Question : Hi Doctor,

My exposure date - 22nd Dec 2016

- Kissing , touching cheeks , neck of girl of unknown hiv or std's status.

- Nude bath in shower and kissing her while bathing

- Sucked and licked her breast extensively

- Nude on bed , kissing and sucking bed and penetrated on bed sheet( no vaginal touch and lip locking)

- She had some dry scar or white rash at ribs near neck and may be by mistake i have touched from my hand or lips.

- uthera contact to bed and her leg or stomach

My test

Hiv 1-2 elisa - neg ( 15 days)

Hiv 1-2 elisa - neg ( 51 days)

HIv 1-2 Elisa CMIA ( Dr lal path Labs) - Non reactive 120 days - Value 0.22

Hep B & Hep C - Neg (120 days)

Herpes 1-2 - Neg (120 Days)

Vdrl - Neg (120 days)

Claymadia - neg (120 days)

My ongoing systems still now:

1) Feeling to Lump on throat
2) Mouth ulcers ( tiny yellow dot on side of tongue , coming and going ....coming very frequent when eating spicy food)
3) Mild Whiteness on side of tongue
4) head heaviness and mild headache
5) The most critical is Vibrating body during sleep overnight
6) Vomating Sensations
7) Hot Flashes (sometimes)

I had sex with my wife couple of times and she is also getting some weird symptoms .. are the worrisome:
1- Feeling sleepy all the time
2- Vomating sensations & uneasiness in sleeping.
3- Headache and pain in legs

My concern:

1) As doctors said , 3 months is conclusive but person must not have any intermediate exposure in between. I had couple of unprotected sex with my wife from my date of exposure to my test dates. Is that right to assume that sex with my wife has considered as exposure and cause any impact on my test results ? Is my test results of 120 days negative is conclusive or do i need to retest at 6 months?

2) Last time my hiv test value at 51 days was 0.07 and at 120 days its 0.22 ...... what does it mean that slowly my body is getting infected and reach to value of 1.00 after couple of months ? or its just a reference figure?

3) I dont have penetrated sex in my last exposure and with my test results do I need to relax and forgot all such fears and move on in my life completely unprotected with my wife ?

4) what would be the reason of these ulcers and other body discomforts especially ? specially vomating sensations , occasionally ulcers at side of tongue and body vibrations.

All such discomforts are written as hiv symptoms in most of the medical websites ..which is scaring me alot.

My wife wants to plan for another baby...should I proceed with upmost trust and confidence .Please suggest

Hi XXXXXXX

Thanks for the suggestion.but read somewhere the vibration feelings are part of peripheral neuropathy and this is one of the symptoms of early infection in hiv patient.

Secondly and similarly lump on the throat is early symptom of Candida.

How to conclude its related to anxiety not because of hiv?

I had bad anxiety and fear of hiv from last 2 years but now m less anxious as compared to previous days, but lump in the throat and this feeling stated suddenly and its persisitant.

Pls suggest

Dear Doctor,

Thanks for suggestions, just would like to share with you that vibration in body is permanent even sometime in Day time too.

Also feeling no energy and sleepy all the time.

Getting shortness of breath.... can all because of anxiety or still m in rage of danger of hiv even after 120 days result

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Hi XXXXXXX

Yes my test was non reactive with value of 0.22 as i mentioned earlier in my previous post.

My problem is these symptoms are very severe ...... every passing days ... the vibration sensation is incrimenting very hard.

Contributing with chest heaviness , uneasiness(ghabrahat) and body pain.....surely i will consult doctor for anxiety pills but is there any way to control this anxiety?

Previously i never ever had experienced such intense bheviour even was much anxious than now i am? This is scaring me alot.... with less consulting the thoughts why so much discomfort?

Pls consult apart from pills if there is any other way to control this and how to avoid hiv thoughts at all.