Can HIV Be Contracted Through Protected Sex?

Posted on Thu, 8 Dec 2016

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Question : Today, I saw a Transsexual escort. I paid $200.00 to see her. She only Tops Men so I allowed her to Top me. I made her put on a condom before. She tried to Top me for 5 minutes and she could not get hard enough. She asked to rub her penis against my anus with no Condom. I said no way, then she said she will not Sneak attack me. So, I allowed it and she kept her promise with me. Then she tried again for 10 minutes with a condom and could not penetrate me because she not hard enough. She changed condoms and tried again. ANother 5 minutes nothing then finally she was able to penetrate me for 3-5 minutes. Then she pulled out then about 45-60 minutes she came in front of me and I saw no condom on her penis. She saw my face and she showed me condom in her hand and stated she just took it off because she cum. I saw condom in her hand but could not see any cum. She took off to bath room and came back with condom in her hand. I wanted to see condom so I can see cum. Then she said I do not have HIV because I have I am getting married soon. I always use condoms. I asked three times if you are sure and she said she has no STD's and used a condom with me whole time. My fear is she took condom off so she can get hard and penetrated me . When done showed me condom in her hand. I did see condom her at most attempts for penetration. What should I do? Is it mind going crazy because I am very scare of HIV. Do you think she tricked me? She had a condom on bed so it looks like she uses protection. I am scared because after penetration, when she came around the bed, I saw no condom except her hand.

Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
Better ruleout HIV/STD with appropriate tests to relieve from mental tensio

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome to HCM.
Thanks for posting your query.
If you believed her that she had used condom from the beginning of the act till the end, then you need not worry. If you have doubts about the same, only way to clear your doubts about HIV/STD, is going for appropriate tests for the same. Ruling out these diseases with tests will relieve unnecessary mental tension. You can not rely her words that she is free from HIV. Testing yourself is safe when you are not sure about the condom usage.
At the same time she would also have concern about her own health. When she had condom at hand, then there was every chance that she would have used the same.
HIV tests are more reliable 12 weeks after the risk contact.
Dr S.Murugan

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (47 hours later)

Lets say she took off condom, what is chances of someone passing HIV. It only lasted 3-5 minutes. I know she had a condom on and saw her change condoms. We used 2 but I just have a fear because I did not see it on when she was done, it was in her hand. It is possible she pulled it off before.

Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (31 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
If she had sex with condom risk of HIV is negligible

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
Duration of contact does not matter in contracting an infection. Just a second with mild sexual abrasion is enough to get an infection, provided that individual has HIV infection.
At the same time partners of infected people, remains HIV free in spite of their regular contact and called as Sero-discordant couple (more common with hetrosexual contact and not with anal contact).
If condom was intact and was there in position throughout the sexual act, then you need not worry.
The risk in anal sex is more than vaginal sex.
Dr S.Murugan

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar