Hello Doctor, I Am Facing Early Ejaculation Problem.
Kindly more information is needed.
Detailed Answer:
Hello dear and Welcome to ‘Ask A Doctor’ service. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice.
There are many possible causes of early ejaculation.
It can be related to organic conditions or psychological conditions.
I would like to have more information to help through the diagnosis:
-How old are you?
-When did you have early ejaculation for the first time?
-Do you have other medical conditions and are you taking any medications currently?
-Do you have only one sexual partner and is your partner worried about early ejaculation?
I am waiting for your response to help you better.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Kind regards!
Dr.Dorina Gurabardhi
General &Family Physician
-When did you have early ejaculation for the first time? - I am facing this problem since last 4 years
-Do you have other medical conditions and are you taking any medications currently? No
-Do you have only one sexual partner and is your partner worried about early ejaculation? I am married since last 10 years but initially for 8 years my partner was not responding good so I had habit of going out. I did not find this problem there but now since last 4 years I am unable to perform outside as well. First time, I am enjoying sex but it quickly ejaculate and for second time I am finding it very difficult to erect itself.
Follow the advice below
Detailed Answer:
Hi again dear,
You are very young, so, the probability of organic issues that cause premature ejaculation is very low.
I recommend to do some examinations for further evaluation.
I suggest:
-A pelvic ultrasound to check the prostate
-A urine test
-Hormone levels
If these examinations do not detect any issue the cause of your symptoms is probably psychological and you may need counseling.
Meanwhile ,I suggest to follow a healthy lifestyle and avoid stress on the daily basis.
I recommend to exercise daily, you may also pelvic exercises to strengthen the pelvic muscles.
I also recommend to talk to your partner and help each other during intercourse to control the ejaculation.
Hope it helps dear,
Dr.Dorina Gurabardhi
Thank you so much for reply!
There are some things which I really enjoyed when outside like blowjob which turned me ON, but my partner is not at all interested in that. Also I identified that touching anal area is something which helps me turn ON but there also my partner does not support...She just lie on bed like dead person and expect everything from me...and now she is blaming as I have issue with longevity. This is whole story...do you suggest any pills or something which I should start...I am in Oslo. Norway now.
No medication is needed.
Detailed Answer:
Hi again dear,
I think that you should start by talking with your partner about your needs during intercourse.
This will be very healthy for your relationship.
I also suggest to do the examinations that I recommended above, to exclude other organic causes that can cause premature ejaculation.
If that will not help, you can also seek psychological help or you can do a couple therapy.
I don't think that you need a specific medication at this point.
I only recommend to follow a healthy lifestyle.
Hope it helps dear,
Take care