Hello.. Am 33 Years Old Married Male.. Off Late I

Posted on Sun, 24 Nov 2019

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Question : Hello.. am 33 years old married male.. off late I am facing week ejaculation.. been almost an year now. Now we are planning to a have a child, me and my wife stay in a long distance relationship. We meet for 10 days in two to three months. Last couple of times we tried to convince but failed. I have not consulted any doctor yet. Am a social drinker and also smoke while taking drinks.
Is there a treatment for my situation?

Answered by Dr. Olgeta Xhufka (53 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Try having more frequent intercourse.

Detailed Answer:
Hello dear, welcome Ask a doctor's service.
I read your query and here is my advice.

I don't think this is really serious and to be concerned.
Your meetings are really rare, once in ten days and if you want to concieve you should have intercourse once in two or three days.
You should not get concerned about infertility if not passed a year of regular intercourse (once in two or three days).
I believe the weak erections and ejaculations are coming as a result of distant relationship.
I think this can be related to any emotional or psychological issue.
I believe that having a regular and more frequent intercourse will help you be back to normal erections. Try to have more frequent intercourse and if not meet a sex therapist.
Hope I have answered the question.
Let me know if I can assist you further.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad

Follow up: Dr. Olgeta Xhufka (1 hour later)

Thanks for your reply.. this gives me a big relief and lot of hopes.. very soon we are looking to move together to same city..

Answered by Dr. Olgeta Xhufka (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
Living together with make things better.

Detailed Answer:
Hello dear and thank you for asking again.
If your wife is having regular cycles the fertility period is around 12th to 16th day of cycle and if she is having irregular cycles it becomes more difficult to detect the fertility window.
You should not yet get concerned about infertility.
Also the distance between you and the stress of trying to concieve without immediate success is making the erections and ejaculations weak.
If you have decided to stay together it will improve definitely the relationship and you will soon succeed.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Raju A.T