How Long Does It Take For Symptoms To Start From HSV?

Question : If I kissed a girl and then 20 hours later my lips were tingling as I was going to bed, that would seem kind of fast for HSV no?
As well as my lips are so dry and scalely and the skin is cracking (it's been about 43 hours), so far my lips have only tingled here and there but my paranoia has me paying very very close attention.

Thanks Doc,
That helps a bit, however my paranoia is incredible when it comes to sexual health. (I haven%E2%80%99t performed oral sex however)
I will say, my lips have became a little dry when I noticed tingling and for the majority of today have been incredibly dry even with lip balm and consumption of at least 60oz a day, usually around 100oz. I try to stay very well hydrated, and I live in a humid climate. I%E2%80%99ve never dealt with dry lips even though I spend extensive amounts of time in the sun.
I%E2%80%99ve attached some pictures and you can see two places where skin has broken on my lips, I fear it is the beginning of ulcers however other than tingling here and there I don%E2%80%99t feel pain thus fair. The other worrisome factor is I jusr so happened to have a bit of a sore throat today, very minor and hasn%E2%80%99t been painful (2 out of 10) the duration of the day. Also have slight congestion, but it%E2%80%99s just a nasal blockage and that happens to me on a weekly basis.
I%E2%80%99m not sure if HSV dries your lips out but on my bottom lip it is the entire thing and on the top lip it is directly below the medial cleft.

The pictures seem to make my lips much brighter red and washes some of the obvious dryness but I tried to get the most accurate angles I could.

Thanks Doc for all your help. I%E2%80%99d of talked to my Doc already but if I am seen officially my entire work staff would see my reason for visit and would have access to my note written. So I%E2%80%99 am reluctant.

If the lip dryness is a coincidence and a potential concern my tobacco history is vaped for a 3-4 years after switching away from dip which I dipped for 2 years. I was recently in the Middle East and over the course of 6 months I probably smoked (not inhaling) approximately 6-10 cigars. No dip. Smoked approximately 12 cigarettes. As I had decided to quit tobacco while I was there and only had the occasional cigar for occasion.

I hope that I am not over writing I know large histories can be helpful but annoying.