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How Risk Of HIV With French Kiss?
Question: April 20, 2023, The Bank Club, Bangkok , Thailand
1. I had French kissed intermittently with a Thai prostitute for a total of maybe 2 minutes.
2. I had insertive fellatio without a condom. After about less than a minute, I put on a condom maybe but not sure with small saliva inside the condom.
3. I fingered her vagina while kissing her nipples for some time.
4. I had insertive vaginal sex with condom. We changed condom in the middle during a break because she insisted that my first condom is small.
5. After some time, I took off the condom and started masturbating myself with maybe but not sure with small vaginal fluids in my hands by touching and taking off the condom in seconds until I came on her outside lips. She kissed my nipples at the same time.
6. I was diagnosed with asthma more than eight months ago. My cough comes and goes.
7. I had productive cough but I took on medicines and it is almost gone.
8. I have Autoimmune Disease Vasculitis that started about 5 years ago. It comes on and off.
9. The Autoimmune Disease Vasculitis came back a month ago but I took on medicines. It was completely gone.
10. It came back with a few Vasculitis rashes. Nevertheless, I applied Vasculitis topical application which was easily gone.
11. I had four bouts in series of very few rashes in different parts of my body that is not Vasculitis. The Dermatologist thinks not HIV. Four bouts of rashes easily gone in series after prescription of Vasculitis topical application.
12. I have ulcerative colitis that started about 11 years ago. It comes on and off.
13. It came back. However, I am taking on medicines right now and it is improving a lot.
14. It's been two months and 19 days that I suffered from severe anticipatory anxiety.
15. Please help me with your HIV Risk Calculator explanation.
16. Is it necessary for me to have HIV test?
1. I had French kissed intermittently with a Thai prostitute for a total of maybe 2 minutes.
2. I had insertive fellatio without a condom. After about less than a minute, I put on a condom maybe but not sure with small saliva inside the condom.
3. I fingered her vagina while kissing her nipples for some time.
4. I had insertive vaginal sex with condom. We changed condom in the middle during a break because she insisted that my first condom is small.
5. After some time, I took off the condom and started masturbating myself with maybe but not sure with small vaginal fluids in my hands by touching and taking off the condom in seconds until I came on her outside lips. She kissed my nipples at the same time.
6. I was diagnosed with asthma more than eight months ago. My cough comes and goes.
7. I had productive cough but I took on medicines and it is almost gone.
8. I have Autoimmune Disease Vasculitis that started about 5 years ago. It comes on and off.
9. The Autoimmune Disease Vasculitis came back a month ago but I took on medicines. It was completely gone.
10. It came back with a few Vasculitis rashes. Nevertheless, I applied Vasculitis topical application which was easily gone.
11. I had four bouts in series of very few rashes in different parts of my body that is not Vasculitis. The Dermatologist thinks not HIV. Four bouts of rashes easily gone in series after prescription of Vasculitis topical application.
12. I have ulcerative colitis that started about 11 years ago. It comes on and off.
13. It came back. However, I am taking on medicines right now and it is improving a lot.
14. It's been two months and 19 days that I suffered from severe anticipatory anxiety.
15. Please help me with your HIV Risk Calculator explanation.
16. Is it necessary for me to have HIV test?
Brief Answer:
Your HIV risk is negligible only.
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for posting your query.
I went through your presentation.
Timings either minutes or seconds do not matter in the transmission of HIV/STI.
Counting your activities and comorbidities, Your risk for HIV is definitely not high. At the same time, with the deep kiss, act of felatio, possibility of condom breakage, we cannot rule out the negligible risk for HIV transmission in your case. (https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/estimates/riskbehaviors.html)
When there is negligible risk for HIV/STIs. It is better to have undergo investigations with regards to HIV/STIs. Even though the chances of getting infection is remote, ruling out this negligible risk, will solve the uncertainty and alleviates unnecessary mental tension.
Dr S Murugan
Your HIV risk is negligible only.
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for posting your query.
I went through your presentation.
Timings either minutes or seconds do not matter in the transmission of HIV/STI.
Counting your activities and comorbidities, Your risk for HIV is definitely not high. At the same time, with the deep kiss, act of felatio, possibility of condom breakage, we cannot rule out the negligible risk for HIV transmission in your case. (https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/estimates/riskbehaviors.html)
When there is negligible risk for HIV/STIs. It is better to have undergo investigations with regards to HIV/STIs. Even though the chances of getting infection is remote, ruling out this negligible risk, will solve the uncertainty and alleviates unnecessary mental tension.
Dr S Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Saisudha Kotla
This is my follow-up question Doctor. Thanks for your reply. I am very grateful to hear from a specialist like you. When I put on my personal condom before insertive vaginal intercourse, the Thai prostitute warned me that my personal condom is small. Nevertheless, I proceeded with the insertive vaginal intercourse. However, in the middle of the insertive vaginal intercourse when when we had a petting break, she took off my condom without asking my permission. Henceforth, I have no choice but to wear a condom from her choice which is a good fit. Since I have severe anticipatory anxiety of which I deeply apologize to please bear with me, I am very scared to take an HIV test. As far as I am concerned, if we consider if the condom is of right quality and the usage is perfect without breakage, do I still have an HIV risk infection? Is it still necessary to take an HIV test?
Brief Answer:
your HIV risk is negligible
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
She might not be a HIV positive woman. Then there is no risk at all.
Even if there is no condom breakage, deep kissing was there. You had fingering also. So you have a negligible risk for HIV.
You may say that you don't want to be tested. But without testing for HIV, you can't be peaceful or calm. The recommendation for the test is to confirm that you are being infected. This will sooth you a great extent. So get tested and clear the status. This will have immense value than my words.
Dr S. Murugan
your HIV risk is negligible
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
She might not be a HIV positive woman. Then there is no risk at all.
Even if there is no condom breakage, deep kissing was there. You had fingering also. So you have a negligible risk for HIV.
You may say that you don't want to be tested. But without testing for HIV, you can't be peaceful or calm. The recommendation for the test is to confirm that you are being infected. This will sooth you a great extent. So get tested and clear the status. This will have immense value than my words.
Dr S. Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. LAKSHMI
Thank you again Doctor for your answer. Please bear with me Doctor. I really need your help. Your Detailed Answer 1 day and 8 hours ago says: "The recommendation for the test is to confirm that you are being infected". Does it mean Doctor that I am confirmed to be already infected by HIV? Please answer Doctor because the more I am confused, the more my severe anticipatory anxiety will attack me in panic.
Brief Answer:
your HIV risk is negligible
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
Sorry. It is by mistake, I missed to type the two words.
It should be like this. "The recommendation for the test is to confirm whether you are being infected or not".
You are very much unlikely to infected. Not to worry.
DR S, XXXXXXX
your HIV risk is negligible
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
Sorry. It is by mistake, I missed to type the two words.
It should be like this. "The recommendation for the test is to confirm whether you are being infected or not".
You are very much unlikely to infected. Not to worry.
DR S, XXXXXXX
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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