
How To Overcome Guilt After A Sexual Activity?



i am single, unmarried. recently had visited a massage parlour and in the end received a happy ending(handjob). Nothing other than this had happened. this is the first time. now i am feeling very guilty and ashamed of what has gone through. how to handle and overcome this guilt
Not repeating the same mistake is best you to overcome guilt
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for using healthcaremmagic.
I read your query and understand your concern.
First of all you need to accept that you can not correct any mistake that has been done in past. What we can do from the mistake is to learn how we can avoid it from repeating.
This is the part of life to do mistakes and learn from them.
Secondly do some stress management with meditation and yoga. You are also advised to take adequate sleep so keep your brain healthy.
Thirdly try to remain occupied with one or another thing. Have something for doing so your brain not distracted to that particular incident.
Finally take a resolution that you will not involve in any such activity which is against your ideology.
Hope this helps you.
If you have any more query feel free to write back to me.
Thanks and regards
Dr Ashok Kumar


laugh it off
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for reverting back to me.
The best way to deal some unacceptable thing (here massage parlour) is to make a joke of something which is unacceptable to our inner self.
Try to find some jokes about massage parlour and share the jokes with your friends and colleagues.
By this way the guilt feeling associated with massage parlour will be replaced by the funny side of story.
In this way you will remember the massage parlour for joke kind of things.
Hope this helps you.
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Thanks and regards


You do not need to talk about incident
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Welcome back to HCM.
Probably you misunderstood me.
I just asked you to find the funny things about massage parlours and share them with friends during lunch break or travel or whenever there is gossip going on.
Use the right time strategy.
Just say hey guys I need to share a joke about something.
It is really interesting and you will fall laughing.
When I googled I found this one (www.utterpants.co.uk/jokes/massage.html) and similarly you can search hundreds of joke about them.
In nutshell you just need to replace your memory about parlour to something else. It is not easy things to do initially so best way to use the other side of things. As you are crossing the parlour almost every day you need the funny side of parlours to replace it. I am suggesting jokes because they can be shared with buddies and everybody likes them at appropriate place.
You need not to share the incident otherwise you will be a joke among buddies.
I hope this helps you.
Thanks and regards

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