Newly Wedded. Unable To Have Intercourse. Looking For Suggestion

Posted on Mon, 25 Feb 2013

Question: HI , i am newly married man, i tried to have sexual intercourse for the first time with my wife . i tried to insert my penis in her vagina but i wasnt able to enter and coundt find the vaginal hole rather hit a XXXXXXX wall . my Question is how will i know where to enter and any guidance .
please can sumone help me with the above query.
Also,

i am able to enter my fingers inside the vagina , however when i am trying to enter the penis,i am unable to..

Answered by Dr. A. CHAKRAVARTHY (16 hours later)

Hi XXXXXXX
Thanks for the query in HCM

From your query, I could understand that you are unable to consummate till now.
If you are able to insert fingers inside vagina, and when you are trying for penetration with your penis, she may be suffering from vaginismus, which is an involuntary contraction of the vaginal muscles which do not allow penile insertion.

The Treatment plan should be Sex Therapy, which is a very effective treatment option for Vaginismus

Hope you got an idea about the problem. I am available for more clarifications

regards
Dr A XXXXXXX
Consultant in Reproductive & Sexual Medicine

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar