Suggest Remedies For High Libido Levels

Posted on Sun, 21 Feb 2016

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Sun, 21 Feb 2016 Answered on

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Question : Respected sir
I am 31 year old male. Sir I have a problem
I have very high sex drive. I demand sex from my wife 3 to 4 times in a week but my wife hardly do sex 2 to 3 times in a month.
I need foreplay before sex but my wife only excited when I do it but she hardly do foreplay.
I have curicity of oral and anal sex. I also like do reverse role play like I am women and she is men. But my wife refused to do them. And I know I demand wrong so I cannot force her.
Now sex thought moving my mind when my came around and I am frusted due to sex drive.

Answered by Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
couple counseling is needed

Detailed Answer:
Hello Mr . XXXXXXX

Thanks for writing back to us. By chance I got your query to answer. We have communicated before 8 months in details about your problem.

There is mismatch in sexual desire as well as in methods of sex between you and your wife.
Sex is not only interaction between two bodies it very complex interaction of body, mind, emotions and needs of male and female.

You both need to understand and respect partner's view on sex. Both have to adjust as well compromise to reach on common goal of sex. For that you need couple counseling by an expert. You alone cannot solve problem in fruitful manner.

Let your wife know this communication and make her ready to consult psychiatrist/sexologist for couple counseling.

Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar