Suggest Remedy For Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse

Posted on Mon, 24 Aug 2015

Question: Hi sir, it was almost one year we have married, since last one year I am not having proper intercource with my partner, the problem is I am not able to insert my whole penis into her, it seems like her vergin is very small due to which when I evacuated it comes outside and nothing reach to vergina..we need to have child asap. She feels very painfull, I never inserted my entire penis into her since last year due to this, also it creats problem in her periods cycle which always delayed. Please advice.

Answered by Dr. Saumya Mittal (33 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Some options discussed

Detailed Answer:
Hi
I am Dr Mittal
Your problem is a very common one.

First, relax her during intercourse.
Anticipation of pain always makes them more tense.
Get her to relax.
she will have less pain making it more easy for you.

There is something called vaginismus.
Its pain in the vagina on insertion of penis.
You may try to get her to relax by using vaginal dilators.
This way the wall would be used to inserted objects.
Path will be broader. So less pain when you enter.

If nothing works, you can try syringe technique.
You basically collect semen in a sterile container.
And inject it with syringe (no needle) in her asap.
Females are usually more comfortable with this.
Avoid lubricants.

Best of luck.
Dr Mittal

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Raju A.T

Follow up: Dr. Saumya Mittal (14 hours later)

Thanks sir for your answer, can I contact any gyenaclogist so that I can explain them better way and they can help, as using injection without nidle can solve my purpose, but till date I am not have satisfied intercource, as this impacting mentaly me and we both are having fighting every time and this could lead to not good for our future life.

Please advice any other way by which I can have satisfied intercource and by which I want a baby in future no need to use injection.

Regards,
XXXX

Answered by Dr. Saumya Mittal (26 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Sure meeting a dr is always helpful

Detailed Answer:
A visit to the gynecologist will help.
There are many good hospitals in XXXXXXX where we can meet a good gynecologist.
Best of luck
Dr Mittal

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vinay Bhardwaj