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Suggest Remedy For Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse

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Question : hi
its been one and half year to my marriage i tried all positions to insert my penis but i am not able to push inside my wife's vagina, only one finger i can insert after that she gets burning sensation and i have to leave it. we both are planning for a kid. please help me out with this problem.
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Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (27 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Use lubricant and see a doctor

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for choosing health care magic for posting your query.
I have gone through your question in detail and I can understand what you are going through.

For better penetration you need to work out different position that you will find after trying multiple ones. It depends from person to person but missionary position and sitting position give the maximum penetration. Only thing you need to take care of opening her thighs wide enough so they do not hinder you during action between sheets.

Before making any attempt to penetrate take enough time for foreplay. Avoid directly approaching genitalia before full stimulation.

In addition to above there is need to use lubricant when inserting your finger/penis. There are vide variety of these are available but I can recommend you to use durex play.

If it does not work there is high possibility of vaginismus. It can be treated with successful intervention of psychiatrist.

Regarding increasing the chances of having a baby soon, you should try and have sex as frequently as possible and at least once a day around her ovulation which is generally 14 days before her next menstrual period. Both of you should eat a healthy and nutritious diet and have regular physical exercise.

So to conclude
-Try different positions to know what suits you most.
-Woman on top and missionary position with wide opening of thighs need to be practice
- Have sex as frequently as possible to make her pregnant
- Have enough physical exercise
- Eat healthy and nutritious diet including fruits and dry fruits.
- See a psychiatrist in person if all do not help.


'Hope I have answered your query. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help".
Thanks
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Suggest Remedy For Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse

Brief Answer: Use lubricant and see a doctor Detailed Answer: Hello, Thanks for choosing health care magic for posting your query. I have gone through your question in detail and I can understand what you are going through. For better penetration you need to work out different position that you will find after trying multiple ones. It depends from person to person but missionary position and sitting position give the maximum penetration. Only thing you need to take care of opening her thighs wide enough so they do not hinder you during action between sheets. Before making any attempt to penetrate take enough time for foreplay. Avoid directly approaching genitalia before full stimulation. In addition to above there is need to use lubricant when inserting your finger/penis. There are vide variety of these are available but I can recommend you to use durex play. If it does not work there is high possibility of vaginismus. It can be treated with successful intervention of psychiatrist. Regarding increasing the chances of having a baby soon, you should try and have sex as frequently as possible and at least once a day around her ovulation which is generally 14 days before her next menstrual period. Both of you should eat a healthy and nutritious diet and have regular physical exercise. So to conclude -Try different positions to know what suits you most. -Woman on top and missionary position with wide opening of thighs need to be practice - Have sex as frequently as possible to make her pregnant - Have enough physical exercise - Eat healthy and nutritious diet including fruits and dry fruits. - See a psychiatrist in person if all do not help. 'Hope I have answered your query. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help". Thanks