Suggest Remedy For Erectile Dysfunction In A Diabetic Patient

Posted on Fri, 18 Mar 2016

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Question : hi

when having sex , i can not keep my dick up sraight

my girlfriend tried to hold my dick up straight during sex but cant kep it strong

normally just rub my dick on top until i make sperm

i had hav sex like tht many times

never put inside a vagaina

i m patient of diabeties

cld this b the problem

please advise me wats wrong

Answered by Dr. Prof. Kunal Saha (54 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Prolonged foreplay is the key

Detailed Answer:
Thanks for asking on HealthcareMagic.

I have gone carefully through the problem and understand your concerns. It seems that you are not adequately aroused. To achieve proper arousal, prolonged foreplay is required. It is only after arousing yourselves significantly that you should indulge in sex. Forget everything else. Let go off your stress. Fondle her breasts. Rub yourselves. Feel the touch. Enjoy getting her aroused. Make it a holistic experience. I am sure that your dick would be hard, up and for long.

Another suggestion would be to make your expectations realistic. Remember that you are not having sex with a porn star or some professional. So what you see in movies might not be rational to expect in real life.
Diabetes could indeed be a possible cause for your problem. Let me know if I could help further.

Regards

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar