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Suggest Remedy For Erectile Dysfunction

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Posted on Mon, 9 Nov 2015
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Question : i sex my partner 2 months ago for more than 4 times per 4 days once but my dick is not standing since last monday
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Answered by Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (16 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
it is just psychological likely

Detailed Answer:
Hello xxxxxx,

Thanks for writing to us. At age of 20 no possibility of any physical cause of erectile dysfunction.

You have problem since 1 week only. When erection problem for more than 6 months and present almost 70% of the time when you attempt sex then only it can be called erectile dysfunction.

Let me know more information.

- Are you married?
If yes duration of marriage ?
If not married, provide details about sex life with girlfriend. Where and in which circumstances you do sex?

- How did problem started? Any specific incidence was there?

- Do you pay more attention to erection while trying for intercourse?

- Do you have any physical illness, specifically diabetes or high blood pressure?

- How is relationship with your partner? Any emotional or social problem is there?

- Is there morning erection present?

- Is there any history of smoking or alcohol?

- Is there any difficulty in urinating?


I will be happy to help further after getting response.

Regards,

Dr.Chintan Solanki

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (20 minutes later)
I started sex at her home. She was in bad mood.Yes i pay more attention. I have more patience about my partner but I'm serious in day times.
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Answered by Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (3 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
it is performance anxiety likely

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for information. It is likely due to performance anxiety.

Sometime due to fatigue, lack of mood, situational problem or environmental changes man can fail in sex. It is normal phenomenon. However when this failure makes person apprehensive about erection, sex life is affected. This is called performance anxiety. After such failure when person actively thinks about erection or success of intercourse during sex his mind is likely diverted to such thoughts. For constant erection continuous exciting/romantic/erotic feelings should be there in mind. If mind diverted to concern about erection, erection would not be possible.

To get rid of performance anxiety help of partner is also an important aspect.
Whenever you go for sex, spare enough time in foreplay. You should not think actively about erection, your mind must be occupied with sexual/romantic feelings. During foreplay your partner should try to arouse you and note that your penis gets erection or not. When she feels that penis is sufficiently erect she herself should try to put erect penis in vagina gradually and you should continue your foreplay feelings without being conscious about erection. You must try to enjoy and only enjoy. Once penis is able to enter in vagina and strokes starts it is easy to complete successful sex.

If your partner is not aware about this situation you can do on your own. You just should try to do sex without being conscious about erection. Enjoy without thinking of your ability of maintaining erection and you will succeed or not.

Please provide answer of all questions so I can give more guidance.

All the best.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (5 minutes later)
The erection occurs night I do smoke for two days yes some Times difficulty in urinating.If i can use viagra
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Answered by Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (5 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
what type of urinating problem

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thanks for information.

If spontaneous erection is there no possibility of any physical problem.However difficulty in urinating to be addressed.
If any pain or burning while urinating you should go for urine examination to rule out urinary tract infection. Use condoms.

Yes you can use viagra. But I suggest first try without viagra the way what I mentioned for performance anxiety. If you cannot succeed even after relaxation of your mind you can use viagra after consulting doctor.

Viagra (sildenafil) is 5- PDE inhibitor group of medicines used for ED. It should be used 2 hours prior to sex. It causes headache, stuffy nose nausea and gastric discomfort like common side effects. Proper physical check-up of cardiac system should be done by a doctor before starting the same. These are prescription medicines and you need to consult doctor/psychiatrist/sexologist for the prescription.

Feel free to discuss further.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Suggest Remedy For Erectile Dysfunction

Brief Answer: it is just psychological likely Detailed Answer: Hello xxxxxx, Thanks for writing to us. At age of 20 no possibility of any physical cause of erectile dysfunction. You have problem since 1 week only. When erection problem for more than 6 months and present almost 70% of the time when you attempt sex then only it can be called erectile dysfunction. Let me know more information. - Are you married? If yes duration of marriage ? If not married, provide details about sex life with girlfriend. Where and in which circumstances you do sex? - How did problem started? Any specific incidence was there? - Do you pay more attention to erection while trying for intercourse? - Do you have any physical illness, specifically diabetes or high blood pressure? - How is relationship with your partner? Any emotional or social problem is there? - Is there morning erection present? - Is there any history of smoking or alcohol? - Is there any difficulty in urinating? I will be happy to help further after getting response. Regards, Dr.Chintan Solanki