Suggest Remedy For Premature Ejaculation During Intercourse

Posted on Thu, 10 Sep 2015

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Question : I have married at the age of 33. My wife is not interested in Sex. But I'm very active in Sex Life. Initially I did not how to do it and when do it. My partner is used to excite and I used to penetrate after my erection is less. Hence I did not have satisfied Sex Life. But after that, I used to penerate immediately after the excitement. I was able to penetrate successfully. But I'm not able to withstand the erection for more than 15 seconds.

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (58 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Try and relax at the time of sex

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for the query.
You seem to be very unsure of sex life. You need to relax when you get intimate with your wife, focus on giving and receiving pleasure. You should feel the touch, not just finish the activity. Every part of body should be explored. You should penetrate only when you feel you are ready. Initially you can try Tadalafil 5 mg and Paroxetine 12.5 mg daily. Try and ask your partner her likes during sex, which is the best turn on and turn off.
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Neel Kudchadkar

Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (33 hours later)

Thank you doctor Dr.Saatiiish.

When I masturbate, I can withstand minimum 1 minute. But after inserting within few seconds, I get released.

The drugs you have specified are safe to use?

Thank you.

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (6 hours later)

Brief Answer:
These medicines are safe

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX
The medicines are safe for sure for short term as well as long term use. Yes, I have understood that you have a very severe Pre Mature Ejaculation.
You may need to under go a test called NPT in future. You should revert back with your progress

DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Sonia Raina

Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (21 hours later)

Thanks doctor.

What is NPT, What is the branch of medicine called? What is the doctor called? Say Cardiologist for Heart. I'm in US. Can you brief me on that?

What kind of doctors should I approach.

NPT - What is it? How they can determine my problem is Pre mature ejaculation.

Thank you.

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (7 hours later)

Brief Answer:
There are multiple options

Detailed Answer:
Hello

NPT is Nocturnal Penile Tumescence. It is to assess the nocturnal erections. In U.S., urologist will take care of NPT. Premature ejaculation is generally determined by history taking . In US, they assess time after penetration before ejaculation. I use the criteria of estimated number of thrusts after penetration. These tests are done to find any other problem. You can also try on line sex therapy or meet a sexologist for couple sex therapy.

Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj