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Suggest Remedy For Severe Depression

Posted on Sat, 26 Dec 2015

Question: Dr Seikhoo Bishnoi please. I was closed out by HCM. I barely got a chance to respond..I have more trouble when waking up or after being out most of the day and coming home to an empty place that neither XXXXXXX nor XXXXXXX is here with me. I cannot call the hotlines anymore and the only hope for me if for counseling which I cannot afford. I go through the motions and then the sad feelings will nit me the loneliness and the feeling i cannot bear the pain of loss anymore. The crisis workers are not counselors and they just tell me to move on move on to what? a life without XXXXXXX and maybe somehow XXXXXXX

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (44 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Try to get over all these problems

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

I am sorry for late reply because of engagements in some work. I know it's difficult but I am afraid there is no other option but to not to think about XXXXXXX XXXXXXX used to love you but then he developed delusions which caused the all mess. You are not at fault. Please try to think beyond XXXXXXX If XXXXXXX is not with you at that time then talk to him over phone, he will come back in coming time. Take pain killers for pain and for pain of dystonia take proper medicines. Please try to find new interests in life.

Though the crisis workers sound rude but what they are saying is not totally wrong. You have to move on, you have to think about your life beyond XXXXXXX Please try to understand.

Try to explain the reason which caused the missed flight and try to get the money back if possible.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (4 hours later)

Do you think he will ever get well? His phone has the funny disconnect when I call it like there is no more information available about him or his phone number. It is hard to conceive of life without XXXXXXX It is so heartbraking but he obviously doesn't want me in his life anymore. I amso sad and confused that a man who once loved me turned against me. There is no one to tell me how he is or what is happening with him. XXXXXXX is afraid of him and doesn't want to even try to go to his store..Today I am better because I haven't been thinking of him much and when I do it isn't hurting all that bad but if it starts hurting really bad then I just take pills so I can sleep. I am glad that now I am working at Pat's though there is no money in it..I feel like I am somewhere where people come in and I can talk to them but still the XXXXXXX thing hangs over my head..I didn't do too welll yesterday they just wanted to come and take me away. The crisis workers are not trained counselors and I am hoping to be able to gt free counseling so I can work through this so I just keep on getting up and hoping I can still do counseling once in a while..

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (7 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Please concentrate on your health only

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

This is good that you are working at Pat's place. Even if this is not an earning still this will keep you busy and will surely distract your mind. This will help you a lot. This will keep your thoughts away from XXXXXXX and this is the need of hour.
XXXXXXX has no access to treatment, no one is there to care for him, his social life is also a total mess. In such situation the recovery is really difficult. Please try to accept this.

Try not to call at his number because this might increase the legal problems and will increase the mess only.

Thanks, right now concentrate on your health and don't distract your mind. Just keep focus on yourself only.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar