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Question: Dr Seikhoo Bishnoi. Today I spoke with the woman who helped XXXXXXX with his injunction against me....she is now seeing how mentally ill he is.. he called her a "soul killer' and is still talking about this woman he told us two years ago had been killed by satanists as though she was still alive and taking classes at the college...i am feeling so low because he convinced her that i was the one pursuing him and that he loved my prayers.
when i told her that he had told me he was deeply in love with me ahe was shocked and could see that he had done a good job convincing her otherwise..i feel so sad now that all he thinks about me is that i am a stalker and that i was his prayer counselor who is not loved by him anymore...how could he go from loving me to just thinking i was his prayer counselor? We were much more than that...
I emailed XXXXXXX anyway but it is still blocked. i also sent it to his work address. At least it went through to the work address. The woman I spoke to today is not going to see him again. When he called her a soul killer that was the last straw for her being his friend. I am a little bit worried that he will file another injunction against me but i didn't say anything about how i felt in the depression way just that i wished he had talked to me and not filed against me.
I also told him good bye.
when i told her that he had told me he was deeply in love with me ahe was shocked and could see that he had done a good job convincing her otherwise..i feel so sad now that all he thinks about me is that i am a stalker and that i was his prayer counselor who is not loved by him anymore...how could he go from loving me to just thinking i was his prayer counselor? We were much more than that...
I emailed XXXXXXX anyway but it is still blocked. i also sent it to his work address. At least it went through to the work address. The woman I spoke to today is not going to see him again. When he called her a soul killer that was the last straw for her being his friend. I am a little bit worried that he will file another injunction against me but i didn't say anything about how i felt in the depression way just that i wished he had talked to me and not filed against me.
I also told him good bye.
Brief Answer:
Accept that he is ill
Detailed Answer:
Hello again
You have mailed him only once and this doesn't mean that he would file an injunction. So don't remain distressed.
He developed delusions against the woman who helped her so this means that his psychosis is worsening. This is the reason he is not accepting that he loved you. Try to accept his illness. He is suffering from schizophrenia and patients of schizophrenia behaves abnormally.
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Accept that he is ill
Detailed Answer:
Hello again
You have mailed him only once and this doesn't mean that he would file an injunction. So don't remain distressed.
He developed delusions against the woman who helped her so this means that his psychosis is worsening. This is the reason he is not accepting that he loved you. Try to accept his illness. He is suffering from schizophrenia and patients of schizophrenia behaves abnormally.
Thanks
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
i sent the email to both of his email addresses. XXXXXXX said that would count as two contacts but i am not sure he is right about that. i agree that he is worsening. his wife could keep him in check but she is dead. thanks for talking to me. When XXXXXXX TOLD ME THAT AND HOW HE LOVED MY PRAYERS i was shocked that he doesnt love me anymore or maybe he does but still cannot be in contact with me. XXXXXXX apologized to me because he convinced her that i was stalking him. now she knows differently and was sorry she hurt me so badly. he is looking for someone ele to help him at his business i guess. i will be moving again so he won't be able to find me. could he try to find me in his delusional mind? i want to see him but am also afraid of him.
i am glad he doesnt know where i live I found an apartment i think about ten miles away in the next town over from here.
i am glad he doesnt know where i live I found an apartment i think about ten miles away in the next town over from here.
Brief Answer:
Try to forget the past.
Detailed Answer:
Hello again
Most likely he would not try to find you because he in in delusions and has psychosis. He lacks insight. This is good that you have found an apartment. This would at least reduce your pain to some extent. Just try to move on and avoid thinking about past. All what happened is not your fault. Its the fault of his illness.
Thanks
Try to forget the past.
Detailed Answer:
Hello again
Most likely he would not try to find you because he in in delusions and has psychosis. He lacks insight. This is good that you have found an apartment. This would at least reduce your pain to some extent. Just try to move on and avoid thinking about past. All what happened is not your fault. Its the fault of his illness.
Thanks
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Dr. Deepak
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