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Suggest Treatment For Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse
Posted on
Fri, 3 Jun 2016
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Fri, 3 Jun 2016
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Question : hello doc, i m at 28-year-old married male and requires a consultation. It's been 6 months i m happily married and share a wonderful chemistry with my wife but are unable to indulge in penetrative sex. Most of the attempts end with just foreplay and masturbation. Her vagina does not get lubricate at all and she is stressed about it, kindly suggest.
Brief Answer:
Following suggestions will be helpful.
Detailed Answer:
Hello Dear,
Thanks for writing to us. Followings are my comments:
1) At the initial stage or first time sex, full penetration is quite difficult due to intact hymen or tight vagina.
In general, when you will arouse or excite her, vaginal canal lengthens and expands, so that she will produce vaginal lubrication (to prevent uncomfortable friction from thrusting) and you can enter your penis.
However, I think that she was just nervous, anxious and have fear of pain during sexual intercourse which may cause her vaginal muscles to tighten, makes the penetration more difficult and painful.
Urinary tract infection and STD should be ruled out by routine urine examination and STD profile. Vaginal swab test should be done.
2) Steps to be done for easy and smooth sexual intercourse:
a) Next time, you must indulge in lots of foreplay to arouse her in top level to increase her vaginal lubrication before penetration.
b) You would be in more relaxed state and both of you will create a romantic environment so that you can focus and enjoy your sex.
c) It will also help if you add water-based lube (like KY gel etc) to her vagina for easier penetration. Make it a part of Foreplay by having he lube her, then return the favor and ready to apply it on condom-covered erected penis right before you enter.
d) It's important that you must communicate to her what feels good and what doesn't. You can let her now what she needs by saying like a little slower or harder or just like that and so on.
e) Also, you can try a woman-on-top position, which will put you in control of the depth and rhythm. Once you get used to the ins and outs of sex, it should be a lot more comfortable and fun.
I suggest you to consult with her treating doctor or Psychologist to get rid of fear or anxiety during sex. She may require some medication for that.
Hope, I have answered your query. Wish your good health and take care.
For future query, you can directly approach me through
http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/Funnel?page=askDoctorDirectly&docId=63326
Regards,
Following suggestions will be helpful.
Detailed Answer:
Hello Dear,
Thanks for writing to us. Followings are my comments:
1) At the initial stage or first time sex, full penetration is quite difficult due to intact hymen or tight vagina.
In general, when you will arouse or excite her, vaginal canal lengthens and expands, so that she will produce vaginal lubrication (to prevent uncomfortable friction from thrusting) and you can enter your penis.
However, I think that she was just nervous, anxious and have fear of pain during sexual intercourse which may cause her vaginal muscles to tighten, makes the penetration more difficult and painful.
Urinary tract infection and STD should be ruled out by routine urine examination and STD profile. Vaginal swab test should be done.
2) Steps to be done for easy and smooth sexual intercourse:
a) Next time, you must indulge in lots of foreplay to arouse her in top level to increase her vaginal lubrication before penetration.
b) You would be in more relaxed state and both of you will create a romantic environment so that you can focus and enjoy your sex.
c) It will also help if you add water-based lube (like KY gel etc) to her vagina for easier penetration. Make it a part of Foreplay by having he lube her, then return the favor and ready to apply it on condom-covered erected penis right before you enter.
d) It's important that you must communicate to her what feels good and what doesn't. You can let her now what she needs by saying like a little slower or harder or just like that and so on.
e) Also, you can try a woman-on-top position, which will put you in control of the depth and rhythm. Once you get used to the ins and outs of sex, it should be a lot more comfortable and fun.
I suggest you to consult with her treating doctor or Psychologist to get rid of fear or anxiety during sex. She may require some medication for that.
Hope, I have answered your query. Wish your good health and take care.
For future query, you can directly approach me through
http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/Funnel?page=askDoctorDirectly&docId=63326
Regards,
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