Suggest Treatment For Erectile Dysfunction

Posted on Mon, 24 Nov 2014

Question: hi good morning sir my name is XXXXXX married from last 2 years in our married life we dont have enough sex or intercourse,now my wife says you didnt physically satisfy me we both are working and we dont have nevr time to spent with each other,when i asked her she told me i have seen many time that your penis never remain enough straight is there any problem in this,but i never seen such problem in me im worried a lot is there any need to consult doctor i afraid of going as i think i have no problem

Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (21 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
You seem to have problem of Erectile Dysfunction.

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for your query,based on the facts that you have posted it appears that you have not been happy with your marital life since you got married .

I shall be happy if you can post me few more details to help me in making comments on your problem.
1) Do you have normal sex desire or libido ?
2) Do you get morning erection ?
3) Do you get good hard erection?
4) Are you able to penetrate vagina during sexual intercourse with your wife ?
5) Is there any stress factor in your life and at your work place ?
6) Is there any psychological conflict or in relationship between both of you ?

Please consult qualified Urologist and Psychiatrist for clinical evaluation and detail investigations to find out the cause of your ED.

Hope I have answered your query. Please feel free to write if you have more questions I shall be happy to help you .
Thanks and Regards .
Dr.Patil.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Bhagyalaxmi Nalaparaju

Follow up: Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (1 hour later)

ya i got normal erection.i use to masturbate before marriage and sometime now also, i got healthy sperm out from penis...my penis also get straight during intercourse but sometime not for long time....penis is normal...i have no medical history also...and i have not such experience of intercourse before ya i have normal desire for sex...but my wife refuse for sex..many time,manytime during intercourse she says me your penis not get enough straight ,because you use to masturbate before marriage that is why your penis is smooth everytime is it the reason to worried kindly reply me soon....

ya i got normal erection.i use to masturbate before marriage and sometime now also, i got healthy sperm out from penis...my penis also get straight during intercourse but sometime not for long time....penis is normal...i have no medical history also...and i have not such experience of intercourse before ya i have normal desire for sex...but my wife refuse for sex..many time,manytime during intercourse she says me your penis not get enough straight ,because you use to masturbate before marriage that is why your penis is smooth everytime is it the reason to worried kindly reply me soon....i got easily peneteration also

Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
It is not due to masturbation .

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for feedback.

At the outsest let me make clear to you that there is myth in a mind of common man that excessive masturbation is the reason of all sexual problems But I would like to state that it has been discussed in scientific forums all over the world and proved scientifically that masturbation does not have any negative effect on any organ or system in the body.All the problems that you are facing now are mind related and due to anxiety.

Your problems seems to be not due to Erectile Dysfunction but is mostly due to lack of healthy relationship that is required for happy and enjoyable sexual enjoyment .

Please consult both of you to Psychiatrist for counselling .

Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Bhagyalaxmi Nalaparaju

Follow up: Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (1 hour later)

thanks for your reply.....and general information..now i have discussed all my feelings and problem i m facing in my relationship... now let me clear myself ,do i need to consult any gycanalogist or urologist,my desire for sex become less because we both never spent time with each other..once a week we managed to spent time each other..and that time we always remain busy with our future ....my wife shows very less desire for sex...kindly suggest me what should be done in this case...these days she is continuing force me to go gynecologist.. which make my mind upset...is there need me to go doctor...and if i go what are the treatment doctor advise me..is there any serious problem...i always remain worried when i think of doctor and dont know what he will give me treatment...pls rply me soon

Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
You canc onsult Urologist for assessment.

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for follow up.
You can consult Urologist to rule out any major cause for your sexual problems .

Please note you have to remove fear from your mind regarding advice by the Dr.
He is the right person to resolve your issue .

I again emphasise that both of you have to consult Psychiatrist for counselling ,

Thanks and Regards.
Dr,Patil.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad