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Question: Hi Sir,
Am kind of facing strange problem :-
1) from recently one week I started noticing that am not getting erections as I used to get before . When I talk to a girl on some sex topics I would get erect but it is not that hard as it used to be before .I read about it over net that this is problem of ED(Erection Disorder) .am getting more worried after reading about it. I am getting morning erections but it will not be for long time .
2) When I get erect it wont be for long time though and when it came back to normal postion and when I pull my foreskin am seeing some kind of watery substances. am thinking that when ever
I get erected then am ejacluating which is really worrying me.
am unmarried now but my parents are seeing matches to me .am started to getting worried if erections wont happen properly then will be active in sex :(.Please help me
Am kind of facing strange problem :-
1) from recently one week I started noticing that am not getting erections as I used to get before . When I talk to a girl on some sex topics I would get erect but it is not that hard as it used to be before .I read about it over net that this is problem of ED(Erection Disorder) .am getting more worried after reading about it. I am getting morning erections but it will not be for long time .
2) When I get erect it wont be for long time though and when it came back to normal postion and when I pull my foreskin am seeing some kind of watery substances. am thinking that when ever
I get erected then am ejacluating which is really worrying me.
am unmarried now but my parents are seeing matches to me .am started to getting worried if erections wont happen properly then will be active in sex :(.Please help me
Brief Answer:
You are absolutely fine, just relax.
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX
Thanks for writing to us.
I read your query and I can understand your concern.
The anxiety you feeling about marital sex life is felt by many of young men like you. It just needs counselling to solve the problem.
It is natural that after some age sensitivity of penile erection and ejaculation is decreased to external erotic stimuli. When any boy enters in to age of adolescent and feel attraction towards girl and get erection. Gradually different types of sexual stimuli are required to get erection like images, videos or thoughts.As time passes more erotic stimuli and later on masturbation are required to keep penis erect. Ejaculation is normal step after erection in sexual activity either it is masturbation or intercourse(sex with female) which leads to orgasm(a relax beautiful good feeling during and after ejaculation which lasts for seconds to minute or so.95% of males in the world do the masturbation before marriage which is absolutely normal.
Ans 1: It is almost not possible that man in your age suffers from erectile dysfunction(ED) physically until he has some physical disease.Your problem is psychological.As you read about ED, you become more alert while erection and try to see that it is proper or not, so your mind is diverted from erotic stimuli and you lose the erection. At age of 26 it is not possible to last erection for long only by talking to a girl and without doing masturbation.If you are getting morning erection(duration doesn't matter), it confirms that you don't have any physical problem.So just relax.
Ans 2: During erection penis prepares itself by secreting some sticky clear fluid which helps for lubrication while it enters into vagina.So the watery substance below your foreskin is that pre ejaculation fluid which is normal.
It is absolutely normal to ejaculate after erection, otherwise you can't enjoy orgasm.
Clear doubts and myths about sexual dysfunction in your mind by what I mentioned. you can do and enjoy sex life after marriage,that is for sure. It is just your anticipatory anxiety.
Please answer some questions to help you more:
Do you masturbate? If yes, since when and frequency?
Do you have any experience of sex?
What is your education qualification?
Why do you feel worried when ejaculation occurs after erection?
Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
You are absolutely fine, just relax.
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX
Thanks for writing to us.
I read your query and I can understand your concern.
The anxiety you feeling about marital sex life is felt by many of young men like you. It just needs counselling to solve the problem.
It is natural that after some age sensitivity of penile erection and ejaculation is decreased to external erotic stimuli. When any boy enters in to age of adolescent and feel attraction towards girl and get erection. Gradually different types of sexual stimuli are required to get erection like images, videos or thoughts.As time passes more erotic stimuli and later on masturbation are required to keep penis erect. Ejaculation is normal step after erection in sexual activity either it is masturbation or intercourse(sex with female) which leads to orgasm(a relax beautiful good feeling during and after ejaculation which lasts for seconds to minute or so.95% of males in the world do the masturbation before marriage which is absolutely normal.
Ans 1: It is almost not possible that man in your age suffers from erectile dysfunction(ED) physically until he has some physical disease.Your problem is psychological.As you read about ED, you become more alert while erection and try to see that it is proper or not, so your mind is diverted from erotic stimuli and you lose the erection. At age of 26 it is not possible to last erection for long only by talking to a girl and without doing masturbation.If you are getting morning erection(duration doesn't matter), it confirms that you don't have any physical problem.So just relax.
Ans 2: During erection penis prepares itself by secreting some sticky clear fluid which helps for lubrication while it enters into vagina.So the watery substance below your foreskin is that pre ejaculation fluid which is normal.
It is absolutely normal to ejaculate after erection, otherwise you can't enjoy orgasm.
Clear doubts and myths about sexual dysfunction in your mind by what I mentioned. you can do and enjoy sex life after marriage,that is for sure. It is just your anticipatory anxiety.
Please answer some questions to help you more:
Do you masturbate? If yes, since when and frequency?
Do you have any experience of sex?
What is your education qualification?
Why do you feel worried when ejaculation occurs after erection?
Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Prasad
Hi Sir,
1)Before I used to masturbate daily once in the mrning before bath but now I had to stopped as I read that it is not good doing mastrubation daily .
2) no sex experience yet.
3) I completed by B.E and now am doing job.
4)i dont know why before I didnt notice like this but I read it in net somewhere that if erection is not happening as before and if there is some sticky fluid then it is ED :(...
and one more thing is some where i read in net that penis has to be normal in between 12-15cms where as if it 10-12 cmns then it small one .I measured that my penis should as 9.5 cms but now when erected it is showing as just 7 or 6.5 only :( and it is not that hard also..this is what is making me worried now .
1)Before I used to masturbate daily once in the mrning before bath but now I had to stopped as I read that it is not good doing mastrubation daily .
2) no sex experience yet.
3) I completed by B.E and now am doing job.
4)i dont know why before I didnt notice like this but I read it in net somewhere that if erection is not happening as before and if there is some sticky fluid then it is ED :(...
and one more thing is some where i read in net that penis has to be normal in between 12-15cms where as if it 10-12 cmns then it small one .I measured that my penis should as 9.5 cms but now when erected it is showing as just 7 or 6.5 only :( and it is not that hard also..this is what is making me worried now .
Brief Answer:
Do masturbation regularly as per your wish
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX
Thanks for info.
I think your problem is started due to getting wrong information about masturbation and sexual dysfunction.
Masturbation is natural and normal thing as I mentioned before. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in future sexual activity. So there is no need at all of suppressing your desire by avoiding masturbation. Just continue it when you desire. Practice makes the man perfect.
Masturbation becomes problem only when someone get addicted to it and they need to do it at the cost of his routine daily wok or study.
Size of penis also varies according to individual. Normally minimum 3-3.5 inches (8-9cm) penis in ERECTILE stage is required to satisfy female partner. You are facing problem in length due to your concern about size and by not doing masturbation. Next time when you masturbate do not think about size, just enjoy your activity and when you feel about to ejaculate, measure the size. I am sure you will find it normal, if you will be able to keep your worries aside about size during masturbation.
So do masturbate as I mentioned. Make understand yourself that you are normal and there is no problem, it was just your misinformation which made you worried and caused the problem. And revert back to me after results of masturbation. I am sure you feel happy after that.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki1
Do masturbation regularly as per your wish
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX
Thanks for info.
I think your problem is started due to getting wrong information about masturbation and sexual dysfunction.
Masturbation is natural and normal thing as I mentioned before. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in future sexual activity. So there is no need at all of suppressing your desire by avoiding masturbation. Just continue it when you desire. Practice makes the man perfect.
Masturbation becomes problem only when someone get addicted to it and they need to do it at the cost of his routine daily wok or study.
Size of penis also varies according to individual. Normally minimum 3-3.5 inches (8-9cm) penis in ERECTILE stage is required to satisfy female partner. You are facing problem in length due to your concern about size and by not doing masturbation. Next time when you masturbate do not think about size, just enjoy your activity and when you feel about to ejaculate, measure the size. I am sure you will find it normal, if you will be able to keep your worries aside about size during masturbation.
So do masturbate as I mentioned. Make understand yourself that you are normal and there is no problem, it was just your misinformation which made you worried and caused the problem. And revert back to me after results of masturbation. I am sure you feel happy after that.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki1
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Vinay Bhardwaj
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