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Question: Hi XXXXXXX last two times i failed in intercourse due to erectile dysfunction.now i am under medication.how to regain confidence and start intercourse.please suggest me
Brief Answer:
Start tadalafil
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for follow up.
The best idea is to take tadalafil 10 mg before 2 hours of sex. This will help for successful sex and getting confidence. You can use it for 2-3 intercourse and then can try without drug with confidence.
All the best.
Start tadalafil
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for follow up.
The best idea is to take tadalafil 10 mg before 2 hours of sex. This will help for successful sex and getting confidence. You can use it for 2-3 intercourse and then can try without drug with confidence.
All the best.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Prasad
Hi DrJi,
thanks for your help.
update you with development
Regards,
XXXX
thanks for your help.
update you with development
Regards,
XXXX
Brief Answer:
Welcome.
Detailed Answer:
You are welcome Mr. XXXXXXX
All the best
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Welcome.
Detailed Answer:
You are welcome Mr. XXXXXXX
All the best
You can contact me directly with this link for future communication.
Http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
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Dr. Yogesh D
Hi XXXXXXX
thanks for your great response.
now i am comfortabley sharing my problems with you and finding solutions which are gruelling my mind for years.
now i am physically fit for intercouse.but i have a problems for longtime.
1.i get arousal looking at women other than my wife.
(i don't feel my wife is sexually attractive as i always masturbate thinking cine actress all the time.i am forcefully trying to get erection by watching Porno.).how to address this problem
2.now i feel guilt of not giving proper sexual pleasure for my wife for the past 11 years of marriage ( 5yrs i was away from my wife)
3.i am very anxious about my intercouse as i sleep by 9.30 PM everyday and my wife comes to bed by 11.30. thanks and Happy new year 2017
thanks for your great response.
now i am comfortabley sharing my problems with you and finding solutions which are gruelling my mind for years.
now i am physically fit for intercouse.but i have a problems for longtime.
1.i get arousal looking at women other than my wife.
(i don't feel my wife is sexually attractive as i always masturbate thinking cine actress all the time.i am forcefully trying to get erection by watching Porno.).how to address this problem
2.now i feel guilt of not giving proper sexual pleasure for my wife for the past 11 years of marriage ( 5yrs i was away from my wife)
3.i am very anxious about my intercouse as i sleep by 9.30 PM everyday and my wife comes to bed by 11.30. thanks and Happy new year 2017
Brief Answer:
needs couple counseling, some efforts by your wife if you can convince her
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for questions and sorry for delayed response due to some personal reasons.
1. It is ok if you get aroused by cine actress or porn. But you should be aroused by your wife also and for that she needs to change herself in terms of look, attitudes, gestures and during foreplay movement in which you can be aroused. In this couple sex counselling is useful
2. You can give pleasure to your wife. You just need to discuss with her about this issue. In that you have to explain what you expect from her so you can be aroused. For example: wearing some nightwear which you feel attractive, changing her hairstyle and so on which you feel. After that you will be able to express your love and sexual feelings easily.
3. You have to adjust your time. Your wife should try to complete her routine early and you should try to awake more. So you can have time. Yes but in that case only sex doesn’t matter. For sex romance should be there in routine life. So try to spend quality time with her whenever possible like in weekends.
Hope you will try to act on these measures gradually and get success in sex life soon.
Al the best and happy 2017.
needs couple counseling, some efforts by your wife if you can convince her
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for questions and sorry for delayed response due to some personal reasons.
1. It is ok if you get aroused by cine actress or porn. But you should be aroused by your wife also and for that she needs to change herself in terms of look, attitudes, gestures and during foreplay movement in which you can be aroused. In this couple sex counselling is useful
2. You can give pleasure to your wife. You just need to discuss with her about this issue. In that you have to explain what you expect from her so you can be aroused. For example: wearing some nightwear which you feel attractive, changing her hairstyle and so on which you feel. After that you will be able to express your love and sexual feelings easily.
3. You have to adjust your time. Your wife should try to complete her routine early and you should try to awake more. So you can have time. Yes but in that case only sex doesn’t matter. For sex romance should be there in routine life. So try to spend quality time with her whenever possible like in weekends.
Hope you will try to act on these measures gradually and get success in sex life soon.
Al the best and happy 2017.
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Dr. Raju A.T
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