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Question: i have autism and dyspraxia. i am having issues in the area of masturbation. i am a female. i can't seem to bring myself to orgasm, i think i may not have the physical stregth to masturbate and require more sensory stimulation then someone without my impairment. i am wondering what to do about this. are there any disability sex aides to help people experience pleasure?
Brief Answer:
Sex aides are commercially available
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Welcome to Healthcare-Magic
Greetings of the day
Dear Ms,
First and foremost let me reassure you, there is no cause for concern. Things can be taken care off.
Masturbation is an art and act of giving pleasure to own self. Many woman even experience orgasm by imagining it. I do agree that sensory stimulation may be important, but it is not the only thing. Remember one does not require imense physical strength for getting orgasm
It would be more helpful if you could provide me some more additonal information
1. Is there any difficulty in getting stimulated?
2. Are the sensation in your perineum / breast normal?
3. What is the technique you follow and what are the problems you face
4. Do you have any painful lesion around the genitals?
In the meantime I would suggest you the following which will definitely be of help
1. Be relaxed: Masturbation is not an exercise, which begins with stimulation and ends with orgasm. It is act of stimulating onself, getting detached from the surrounding and giving one self as much pleasure as possible. The secret of having a good orgasm, is being self submissive. Submit yourself to yourself. Sound, excessive light, unfavourable surrounding may have a negative effect
2. Surroundings: It will be helpful if the surrounding is quite, calm, soothening with enough privacy
3. Increase sensory input: simultaneously stimulating breast and genitals may be helpful
4. Sex aides: There are many commercial sex aides like Vibrators, nipple clips, artificial self erecting penis which are available, which you can definitely try.
Do get back to me with the details.
Take Care
Best Regards
Dr T Shobha Deepak
MBBS,MD
Sex aides are commercially available
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Welcome to Healthcare-Magic
Greetings of the day
Dear Ms,
First and foremost let me reassure you, there is no cause for concern. Things can be taken care off.
Masturbation is an art and act of giving pleasure to own self. Many woman even experience orgasm by imagining it. I do agree that sensory stimulation may be important, but it is not the only thing. Remember one does not require imense physical strength for getting orgasm
It would be more helpful if you could provide me some more additonal information
1. Is there any difficulty in getting stimulated?
2. Are the sensation in your perineum / breast normal?
3. What is the technique you follow and what are the problems you face
4. Do you have any painful lesion around the genitals?
In the meantime I would suggest you the following which will definitely be of help
1. Be relaxed: Masturbation is not an exercise, which begins with stimulation and ends with orgasm. It is act of stimulating onself, getting detached from the surrounding and giving one self as much pleasure as possible. The secret of having a good orgasm, is being self submissive. Submit yourself to yourself. Sound, excessive light, unfavourable surrounding may have a negative effect
2. Surroundings: It will be helpful if the surrounding is quite, calm, soothening with enough privacy
3. Increase sensory input: simultaneously stimulating breast and genitals may be helpful
4. Sex aides: There are many commercial sex aides like Vibrators, nipple clips, artificial self erecting penis which are available, which you can definitely try.
Do get back to me with the details.
Take Care
Best Regards
Dr T Shobha Deepak
MBBS,MD
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
i don't seem to feel anything when i follow the book on how to masturbate using fingers. sometimes all i feel is that i need to pee.
im not sure about the breast one.
the technique i follow. I hump soft toys, sometimes i insert pens and pencils into myself. i seem not to feel anything unless i push really hard on the pens and pencils inserted etc.
im not sure about pain. i have autism. i don't know what is pain what is not pain. i don't get the right feelings like other people do.
im not sure about the breast one.
the technique i follow. I hump soft toys, sometimes i insert pens and pencils into myself. i seem not to feel anything unless i push really hard on the pens and pencils inserted etc.
im not sure about pain. i have autism. i don't know what is pain what is not pain. i don't get the right feelings like other people do.
Brief Answer:
Pens and toys are unsafe
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Greetings
Dear Ms
Thanks for the reply. Pain is something which is unpleasant and one wants to run away or get rid of such feeling.
Inserting pens and toys is definitely not the right thing to be done. They are unsafe. If the pens break inside , it may lead to retailed foreign body inside.
Books are just a guide. Every individual is unique and respond in different way to the same level of stimulation. Books cannot rule you. It's very important not be sticking to the rules. Follow what your body demands. Massaging the clitoris and at the same time stimulating the breast by pinching the nipple or squeezing the breast will be helpful. I hope there are no painful lesion which have occurred over the genitals.
Use vibrators instead of using pens and soft toys. Close your eyes during the act and imagine the most erotic situation or fantasy which will definitely help you.
If you need any further guidance do get back to me.
Take care
Best Regards
Dr T Shobha
Pens and toys are unsafe
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Greetings
Dear Ms
Thanks for the reply. Pain is something which is unpleasant and one wants to run away or get rid of such feeling.
Inserting pens and toys is definitely not the right thing to be done. They are unsafe. If the pens break inside , it may lead to retailed foreign body inside.
Books are just a guide. Every individual is unique and respond in different way to the same level of stimulation. Books cannot rule you. It's very important not be sticking to the rules. Follow what your body demands. Massaging the clitoris and at the same time stimulating the breast by pinching the nipple or squeezing the breast will be helpful. I hope there are no painful lesion which have occurred over the genitals.
Use vibrators instead of using pens and soft toys. Close your eyes during the act and imagine the most erotic situation or fantasy which will definitely help you.
If you need any further guidance do get back to me.
Take care
Best Regards
Dr T Shobha
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Brief Answer:
Vibrators are equivalent to artificial Penis
Detailed Answer:
Dear Ms,
Lets have a detailed interaction and step by step I will be able to guide you.
Soft toys are the things which are not appropriate for the shape of vagina. Vagina is hollow muscular structure and the shape is ideal and meant for insertion by male organ that is penis. Toys , because of disproportionate size and size will not suite the insertion into vagina. So they are unsafe.
Vibrators are made up of various material like hard latex/PVC and are battery operated. The shape and size is exactly like the Penis(male sex organ). They can be safely inserted , due to vibration created by it , it will cause necessay stimulation needed for achieving orgasm.
Clitoris is small penile like structure between labial fold of external genital of female. It is one of the sensitive structure and stimulation of it will cause intense excitation.
Regarding visual aides, there are many online website which will help you understand the female anatomy and will also guide you on how to masturbate.
Also discussing with your female friends will be helpful. Do you have any close friends ?
Do get back to me
Take Care
Regards
Dr T Shobha
Vibrators are equivalent to artificial Penis
Detailed Answer:
Dear Ms,
Lets have a detailed interaction and step by step I will be able to guide you.
Soft toys are the things which are not appropriate for the shape of vagina. Vagina is hollow muscular structure and the shape is ideal and meant for insertion by male organ that is penis. Toys , because of disproportionate size and size will not suite the insertion into vagina. So they are unsafe.
Vibrators are made up of various material like hard latex/PVC and are battery operated. The shape and size is exactly like the Penis(male sex organ). They can be safely inserted , due to vibration created by it , it will cause necessay stimulation needed for achieving orgasm.
Clitoris is small penile like structure between labial fold of external genital of female. It is one of the sensitive structure and stimulation of it will cause intense excitation.
Regarding visual aides, there are many online website which will help you understand the female anatomy and will also guide you on how to masturbate.
Also discussing with your female friends will be helpful. Do you have any close friends ?
Do get back to me
Take Care
Regards
Dr T Shobha
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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