Question: Hi, my son is now 28months olds now. First of all, we speak 3 different languages at home which we have no choice. He can point out the face/body parts, animals..after I shiw him a few time time. He can point out in all 3 languagesi asked him. After a few times, he doesnt really point all the time when I asked him. .He understands all 3 languages when we talks, he said some words like moo moo, ba ba, sheep, bobofly(butterfly),etc. In english right after he heard and saw it. He said fish in mandarin cuz it is earlier to pronoun. After saying those words a month or so. He stop saying it. He called out mama,, byebye grandma in mandarin before. Then not anymore. Now he is 28months, he start grunting a lot when he looking at me , playing , etc. He point, he get what I asked him to, he takes me to what he wants, he copies what I do, copies when I make weird sound, his dr said he has no signs of autism. We gotto wait until he is 2 1/2 for a hearing test. I know thst he sometime try to say a word, until this week, he start grunting a lot that it sound like a word.. Is he starting to talks?

1 * His birth weight. Is 7lbs 7oz, his current weight is 36lbs. He was 20in at birth now 38inch .
2 * He started walking around 14 months, he never hold onto thing to walk or not even stand up by him self, he stood up and ttook step then walk around 14months
3 * He cries a lil after birth, cried out loud after got XXXXXXX on the bottom by the nurse
4 * the tv on quite a few hours but he doesnt really watch it, He watch less tv now, and all he watch is about farm animal that his fav. And from ipad because he never say a word no matter how mamy time I teach him hntil he saw animals at state fair and started saying moo" right after that, everytime he look at his ipad app. He learn and said new animal sound and name he even learn other stuffs like phone,bottle,other things .he even play the puzzle app but he doesnt really into the puzzle I bought him.
5 * neither my husband or I delay in speech but my brother, quite a few cousin are not talking , less than 10 words before they turn 3
6 * He has around 13 words but as is for now.. He not saying any, he stop saying the word he knows after a few weeks, more like once he knew it, he not doing it anymore
*** I feel like my son is slower than other at his age.Before he turn 18-20 monts. He didnt get what I asked him to,like get bottle, diaper, etc. , he not pointing, not knowing how to answer the toy phone, not looking when I point to thing, doesnt care to response when call( he doesnt care , he does response when he wants to).And after 20,, after he back from state fair, he catched up. He can play puzzle when he never play before, he can put in the right shape, color which he never touch them before, he respones to whst I asked like get his toy , jacket, stuffs. He even tried to put on his shoes. I read him book but he doesnt really like sitting there and listen, if it is book in ipad , he will listen and when I asked him like whst piggy do, he grab a pig and shiw me piggy eating like in the story.
and there is 1 more thing about my son, he is a really careful type.. He take small bite on food, he wont slide or slide on tummy when he cant really slide down, he need to hold hand when he walk down stair or uneven spot, he started crawling around 10months, and due to uncomfortable crawling on knees and cold, ,he crawls with his feet, he taking thing really careful , I dont know if his personality have anything to do with him wanting to talk or not, and he is spoil from my parents and sister, he grts what he wants

Sorry for writting this long

His dr want him to wait til he is 2 1/2, before the hearing test, should i wait untill then , and start reading him book, communicate with him and stuffs, or should I take action with the dr now?

I scheduled an appointment for him on the 21st this month. And I also want to know is it still ok forhim to watch toddler music dvd?, just the music atleast, I work midnight ship at ihop then head to marshalls on the morning, off at 3p.m.. And he doesnt have babysitting other thN my mom before I get off then she goes to work. I know it is my job to keep my son companie but I somehow need at least a half hour break.. And it will be bore for.him notto have anything to watch especiallywhen my son not into toys other than farm animals .