Suggest Treatment For Less Interest In Vaginal Intercourse

Posted on Thu, 23 Apr 2015

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Question : what do i do? My boyfriend of 4 years is not interested in making love to me. He wants to mIasterbate in front of me and asks me to talk about sexual things i have done with other men in the past and he likes to tell me about his past sex times. I want to please him and do what he wants however when I see him pleasuring himself I want him to pleasure me. I tell him but then he will just pleasure himself and ejactulate on my vagina as I hold it open. Rarely will he put it in me and make love and if he does its right at his climax and its over in seconds. H e claims hes too tired to make love to me.

Answered by Dr. Rakesh Madhyastha (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
Role Play

Detailed Answer:
Hello

Thanks for the query

It is extremely unusual to have such fantasies however in order to please him I suggest you to try role play where he is dressed and behaves as someone else. I also suggest prolonged foreplay in order to get him more excited

Regards

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar