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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation

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Posted on Sun, 4 May 2014
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Question : Hi I have bad premature ejaculation which I have tried many different methods to cure. If I tense my penis I will ejaculate if I don't and keep it un tensed then after a while I lose erection can you help
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Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (30 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
please follow the steps given below

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for choosing wwwhealthcaremagic
Losing erection after some time time and ejaculating early are two different problems. One may have a very hard erection but ejaculate quickly or vice versa. The reasons for your problems need to be understood, which came first- early ejaculation or losing erection . One may start by having early ejaculation, develop performance anxiety , may try extra hard to finish the job and shift focus away from pleasure to performance. It becomes a vicious circle , one problem worsening the other continuously.
first, it has been like this since the time you started masturbation or initially it was normal.
If it has developed later on, you have to start focussing on pleasure , not performance . It can be done by banning sexual intercourse and touching genitals initially, exploring each other body for pleasure by bathing , massaging or simply touching each and every part of body, finding what turns you on and what are turn offs. Thus learn to receive and give pleasure, setting no limits and bars for it. Later you can add genitals to the areas to be explored and last, have penetrative sex, learning to control thrusts according to the threshold of ejaculation. Thus one can learn to have some control on ejaculation.
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (31 minutes later)
Will viagra help premature eja ulation
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Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (4 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Viagra doesn't help in premature ejaculation

Detailed Answer:
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No, Viagra is not meant for pre mature ejaculation. It only helps in hardness.
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (44 minutes later)
I have tried hypnotherpy anti depressant pills pinch and squeeze and none of them have really worked do you think councilling is the only answer left. The problem has got worst and worst probably the more i focus on it
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Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (4 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Counselling is best for you

Detailed Answer:
hello
You have already answered your question- the more You focus on your problem, the worse it gets. I am trying to do exactly the opposite of that- shifting your focus away from performance to pleasure. It is a diabolical learning by your brain which needs to be corrected.
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation

Brief Answer: please follow the steps given below Detailed Answer: Hello Thanks for choosing wwwhealthcaremagic Losing erection after some time time and ejaculating early are two different problems. One may have a very hard erection but ejaculate quickly or vice versa. The reasons for your problems need to be understood, which came first- early ejaculation or losing erection . One may start by having early ejaculation, develop performance anxiety , may try extra hard to finish the job and shift focus away from pleasure to performance. It becomes a vicious circle , one problem worsening the other continuously. first, it has been like this since the time you started masturbation or initially it was normal. If it has developed later on, you have to start focussing on pleasure , not performance . It can be done by banning sexual intercourse and touching genitals initially, exploring each other body for pleasure by bathing , massaging or simply touching each and every part of body, finding what turns you on and what are turn offs. Thus learn to receive and give pleasure, setting no limits and bars for it. Later you can add genitals to the areas to be explored and last, have penetrative sex, learning to control thrusts according to the threshold of ejaculation. Thus one can learn to have some control on ejaculation. Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa