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Posted on
Mon, 6 Apr 2015
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Mon, 6 Apr 2015
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Question : Sir, Good Afternoon. My age is 30.8 Years. I am still unmarried. But going to be married soon in few months. But whenever i do some sexual talk with my fiance or sit near her, Some semen like liquid(Water type) comes out from penis. Its quantity is so much that it is clearly spotted by anyone in normal trouser. I did sex with one of my partner around 6 years back around 8-10 times in a two years but each time i ejaculate within 10 sec. This was not a problem to me during school days. n starting it took long time around 5-10 mins in masturbation. But slowly and slowly time decreases and now i facing this problem. Now if i masturbate it took maximum 15-20sec. Sir, Is this psychological or physical disease. Please help and prescribe some medication if necessary. Sir, please inform how much time it would take maximum to cure this problem fully.
Brief Answer:
Excess secretion can be normal or due to infection.
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for your query,
It is normal to have watery secretion, specially when you are not sexually active, after talking with prospective wife or other female. Body secrete lubricant to facilitate sexual act. Such secretions are usually more when person is about to get married. There is no treatment for this. Some time urinary and semen infection can also lead to excess secretion. So get Urine routine and microscopic examination and semen examination done to rule out infection. You can also share report with me on this platform.
Premature ejaculation is also a very common and treatable problem. Premature ejaculation is diagnosed when ejaculation time is less than 3 Min, or both partners are not satisfied with sex.
Premature ejaculation (PME) is common problem and depends on multiple factors like:
*Psychological factors: most common. The psychological factors may include stress, performance anxiety and depression
*Medical causes: Reflex activity of ejaculatory system, thyroid problems, urinary infection, excessive alcohol use and neurological causes.
FOLLOWING STEPS WILL BE HELPFUL FOR TREATMENT of PME:
-Treatment of above conditions (if present) after examination.
-Start jogging in morning for 20-30 minutes daily, as it reduces performance anxiety and improve blood circulation.
- Try distracting yourself when you feel you are about to ejaculate. Take a deep breath and stay relaxed during intercourse.
- Do not worry about performance and talk to your partner openly about any apprehensions if you have. Conversation with partner during sex also delay ejaculation.
-Stop start technique: In stop start technique, near ejaculation stop all movements, relax and think about something else. Then wait for 1 minute before starting movements. According to number of stops, ejaculation time will come under your control.
-Squeeze- pause technique: squeeze the end or the tip of the penis for 10 to 20 seconds when you are close to ejaculation and then resume stimulation after withholding for half a minute.
-In many persons woman on top position increases ejaculation time, so try this position and experiment with other positions also.
-Condoms with desensitizing creams (marketed as Kohinoor extra time) help in increasing ejaculation time. Just wear this as normal condom and start sex after 30 seconds of penile massage, as medicine take some time to act.
-Medicine like Dapoxetine also help in premature ejaculation, if person take it 1-2 hours before sex.
Premature ejaculation is treatable. So, relax. If you are in XXXXXXX NCR, you can meet me personally, in case you do not respond to above measures. So, that I can prescribe you some prescription medication.
Take care
Excess secretion can be normal or due to infection.
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for your query,
It is normal to have watery secretion, specially when you are not sexually active, after talking with prospective wife or other female. Body secrete lubricant to facilitate sexual act. Such secretions are usually more when person is about to get married. There is no treatment for this. Some time urinary and semen infection can also lead to excess secretion. So get Urine routine and microscopic examination and semen examination done to rule out infection. You can also share report with me on this platform.
Premature ejaculation is also a very common and treatable problem. Premature ejaculation is diagnosed when ejaculation time is less than 3 Min, or both partners are not satisfied with sex.
Premature ejaculation (PME) is common problem and depends on multiple factors like:
*Psychological factors: most common. The psychological factors may include stress, performance anxiety and depression
*Medical causes: Reflex activity of ejaculatory system, thyroid problems, urinary infection, excessive alcohol use and neurological causes.
FOLLOWING STEPS WILL BE HELPFUL FOR TREATMENT of PME:
-Treatment of above conditions (if present) after examination.
-Start jogging in morning for 20-30 minutes daily, as it reduces performance anxiety and improve blood circulation.
- Try distracting yourself when you feel you are about to ejaculate. Take a deep breath and stay relaxed during intercourse.
- Do not worry about performance and talk to your partner openly about any apprehensions if you have. Conversation with partner during sex also delay ejaculation.
-Stop start technique: In stop start technique, near ejaculation stop all movements, relax and think about something else. Then wait for 1 minute before starting movements. According to number of stops, ejaculation time will come under your control.
-Squeeze- pause technique: squeeze the end or the tip of the penis for 10 to 20 seconds when you are close to ejaculation and then resume stimulation after withholding for half a minute.
-In many persons woman on top position increases ejaculation time, so try this position and experiment with other positions also.
-Condoms with desensitizing creams (marketed as Kohinoor extra time) help in increasing ejaculation time. Just wear this as normal condom and start sex after 30 seconds of penile massage, as medicine take some time to act.
-Medicine like Dapoxetine also help in premature ejaculation, if person take it 1-2 hours before sex.
Premature ejaculation is treatable. So, relax. If you are in XXXXXXX NCR, you can meet me personally, in case you do not respond to above measures. So, that I can prescribe you some prescription medication.
Take care
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