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Question: My husband and I have been married for 3 years and we have yet to be able to have sex.
We have 2 issues. We both waited until marriage so both virgins and because of this we didn't know we had 2 issues. His issue is he cannot keep a boner for longer than 1-2 minutes and I am "too tight"
I have tried the vaginismus treatment of using incremental sizes of medical dildos but this does not help as my husband is quite large.
What can we do?
Thank you
We have 2 issues. We both waited until marriage so both virgins and because of this we didn't know we had 2 issues. His issue is he cannot keep a boner for longer than 1-2 minutes and I am "too tight"
I have tried the vaginismus treatment of using incremental sizes of medical dildos but this does not help as my husband is quite large.
What can we do?
Thank you
Brief Answer:
It needs detailed evaluation
Detailed Answer:
Hello
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For vaginismus, using dildo is the right treatment but it may not be enough to stretch your vagina if done by yourself. Secondly one can have phobia of penetration so it may have spasm when there is attempt of penetration hence a detailed assessment and psychotherapy becomes essential.
Your husband may have fear of failure so may be losing erection. I think you should consult a authentic sexual health hospital for help. wwwvivanhospital.com is one such
Foreplay before attempting vaginal intercourse will help you.
Good Luck
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
It needs detailed evaluation
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for choosing HCM
For vaginismus, using dildo is the right treatment but it may not be enough to stretch your vagina if done by yourself. Secondly one can have phobia of penetration so it may have spasm when there is attempt of penetration hence a detailed assessment and psychotherapy becomes essential.
Your husband may have fear of failure so may be losing erection. I think you should consult a authentic sexual health hospital for help. wwwvivanhospital.com is one such
Foreplay before attempting vaginal intercourse will help you.
Good Luck
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
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