
Suggest Treatment For Vaginismus

Posted on
Wed, 2 Nov 2016
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Question :
I'm having problem penetrating my wife.
I can get full erection but I can't seem to be able to penetrate her.
Sometimes I think that maybe I'm doing something wrong
I'm having problem penetrating my wife.
I can get full erection but I can't seem to be able to penetrate her.
Sometimes I think that maybe I'm doing something wrong
Brief Answer:
It may be due to vaginismus
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX,
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.
I read your query and understand your concerns.
Please answer the following questions
1. How long you are having problem?
2. How it was started? Whether it started gradually or out of nothing?
3. Whether the problem is present from the first day of sexual intercourse wth your wife?
4. What about your earlier experience with some other women? If yes details.
I look forward to get more details to answer you appropriately.
Thanks and regards.
It may be due to vaginismus
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX,
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.
I read your query and understand your concerns.
Please answer the following questions
1. How long you are having problem?
2. How it was started? Whether it started gradually or out of nothing?
3. Whether the problem is present from the first day of sexual intercourse wth your wife?
4. What about your earlier experience with some other women? If yes details.
I look forward to get more details to answer you appropriately.
Thanks and regards.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar


1- its been 3 months now since we first tried having sex. Last try was two days ago and it ended up with fail.
2- I don't understand your question. Its been like this since the first try.
3- yes from the first day.
4- my other experience with women were successful since I had some help/guidance .
On another note. My wife have visited a gynocolgist and was told that she is not having any problem.
2- I don't understand your question. Its been like this since the first try.
3- yes from the first day.
4- my other experience with women were successful since I had some help/guidance .
On another note. My wife have visited a gynocolgist and was told that she is not having any problem.
Brief Answer:
It is vaginismus
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXX,
Thanks for reverting back to me.
As per the provided details I feel she is having a problem called vaginismus in which the outer most part of vagina contracts and do not allow penis to enter successfully.
The condition often diagnosed and treated by psychiatrist and so you as couple need to see a psychiatrist rather than a gynecologist.
I hope this helps you.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for my future patients.
In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below mentioned link:
http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386
Thanks and regards.
It is vaginismus
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXX,
Thanks for reverting back to me.
As per the provided details I feel she is having a problem called vaginismus in which the outer most part of vagina contracts and do not allow penis to enter successfully.
The condition often diagnosed and treated by psychiatrist and so you as couple need to see a psychiatrist rather than a gynecologist.
I hope this helps you.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for my future patients.
In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below mentioned link:
http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386
Thanks and regards.
Note: For further guidance on mental health, Click here.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

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