
Suggest Ways To Deal With A Broken Relationship



handle ALL Very Well ! - for my entire Life, I am Grateful for being able to do this. The Problem is: On 8/19/77 -
after escaping Near Death/ with my "Special Son", (then 12 yrs.) from my X - I started Talking Faster than
I had before. Now at age 82, after having to Relocate from my Farm - on The XXXXXXX Dixon Line, in Lineboro Md. on 8/19//77- to
Offer my 5 Teenagers a Safe/Secure home where we would Be Free from any more Fearful Dictatorship from a Very ill person/
their Dad & my X Husband. I was so nieve & innocent, Mental Abuse was not Heard of back Then. Through the Grace of God, I kept my Promise to each of my 5 children. "I would never Abandon any of my Treasures ! We were all doing Very Well...in our Very Own Apt./ after I got a Job as Marketing Director/
Job Developer/ for the 1st Fully Comprehensive/ Middle River Manpower Service Center, in XXXXXXX County. I was under XXXXXXX Hargadon, Director of MRMSC. It was my responsibility to Make Happy Marriages between The Small Businesses ( 250 Employees or Less) within my Territory/ Balto Co.) I Developed he Jobs to "Fill the Needs" of the Unemployed/ including "Limited Folks" who came seeking assistance from MRMSC. I more than met my Goals every month to fill the needs of our MRSC, I received Acolades/ Awards for my Excellance + Performance! The 5 Counselors, who worked under me, & I got along exceptionally well........ Until, my X's Inappropriate Unacceptible Threatening Behavior... placed my 5 children's and my "Very Life"
"At Risk"! that precipitated our relocation - 1st to Ft. Laud. Fl. 1979/ then to Leeds Al. in 1995/ then to XXXXXXX Area in 2008 / & Scranton Pa/ in 2012 where my "Special Son", now 50, & I are today.
Faith in God is the Only Reason we can still Speak at all ! We both have Faith enough to Move a Mountain!
But Our World has "Changed" much/ since our childhoods. I still talk too much ! So at age 82 some no doubt
think I am "CRAZY" . And to add Insult to Injury, my "Special Son's Twin has "Unresolved Problems" - that
date back to 1986. I was advised by Police/ Counselors/ and a Priest I needed to use "Tough Love" to save her "Life" . I obeyed their advice ASAP. My Most Treasured Daughter who has Talents/ and a Loving Heart
beyond Comprehension. She entered an Alcohol Rehab. Center. I was so Proud of her. I notified all of our family- as her Staff Advised ! To seek the Support from Alanon/ the sister of AA...so we could offer the Support my beloved daughter would need to Remain in Recovery ! and live a Normal Life ! Unbeknowst to me - My daughter called all of our family ( Out of State/ far and wide!) members/ with the message that/
Her mother was "Crazy" talked too much,& was Not her Limited twin brother's "Legal Guardian"She was ! I needed to
engage an Atty recently to send her a "Cease & Desist" Order to not contact her twin or his mom until - she gets her unresolved
Anger resolved. The 12 Step Program Works foe all who work It.This is the most difficult of all of the many situations I've needed to Sort out/ through my entire life ! I pray some Good will come out of this Most Messy Family Debacle! And my daughter will be soon be Back on Track Emotionally - & the rest of our Family/ & other Families Suffering from
an Alergy to Alcohol - will seek - "Tough Love" when proven necessary - so All of their Loved Ones can Go in Love XXXXXXX and Peace - through Recovery/ Reaching out to Help other ill persons - be they sufferers of an Allergy to Alcohol or the / Needy/ Poor/
In Prison/Hungry Limited etc. -
Remembering always...my Special Son's gentle/ kind/ and thoughtful words of concern to two
of my dearest friends - he overheard gossiping - when we were back on Our Farm - "No One is Perfect"
So Doc. what would you doif you were in my shoes ! Do you agree with my son's doctors - I am of sound
mind in spite of the false rumors that have hurt me deeply - for far too many years...but I believe in
Honey not vinegar/ mis=xed wit a large dose of Common Sence/ and following Sound Advice of Others/
who are filled with Love XXXXXXX and Peace... As Love endures All and Overcomes All.........................................
I will Treasure your Feedback Doctor! Thanks for bending you ear of concern...for thei Lady who - when
Under Stress talks Too Much !
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Detailed Answer:
Hello, and thanks for your question.
I think family is the most important thing in life. When one of our family member's having concerns, we should listen closely to those concerns. You are clearly a very strong and independent person who has been through a lot.
I think as long as you hold your family close and listen with an open mind to their concerns, everything will turn out okay.
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