Suggest Ways To Give Up Masturbation

Posted on Sat, 16 Apr 2016

Question: Sir,I think I'm addicted to prone masturbation.I was not knowing the side effects caused by it.Please suggest me some way to get out from that.I find difficulty in producing sperms in normal masturbation
I'm 22 years old and I'm doing it from 18 years.will I face any difficulties at time of sex
I don't watch porn
But everyday I have some tendency to masturbate.please please help me doctor

Answered by Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (19 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
masturbation is normal until it is compulsion

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern.

Masturbation is natural and normal thing. It is done by 95% of the males in the world, mostly before marriage as well as when wife is away, in menses or pregnant after marriage. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in sexual activity.

- Let me know frequency of your masturbation.

- Does masturbation affect your occupational or social life?

- Is it compulsion for you?

I will be happy to help further after your response.

Regards,

Dr.Chintan Solanki.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (14 minutes later)

Yes ,its kind of compulsion for me.The bad point is that I masturbate laying down in stomach ,prone masturbation I feel so guilty after doing that and again I does that. I am worried whether this will lead to infertility stage .earlier it was compulsion for me to masturbate once in a day.I m trying my level best to reduce but its not happening,pls help me doctor
How can I change from prone masturbation to normal masturbatin
Will this cause any harm in future regarding fertility?

Answered by Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
do not feel guilty, prone masturbation is also normal

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thanks for information.

Frequency of masturbation is normal in your case. Almost 20-30% of the males do masturbation in prone position and others use hand.

As such prone masturbation is nor harmful. However care should be taken that surface should not be hard and you should not injure your penis vessels by giving extreme pressure through hard surface. Doing in bed is safe. But in any case it will not lead to infertility at all.

Don't try to reduce your frequency. Do masturbation when you desire. Do not suppress your desire. Just try to enjoy masturbation with hand. With hand you can control duration of ejaculation in better way. It is completely safe method also.
Gradually with practice you can shift to normal masturbation from prone masturbation.

Let me know your experience of masturbation with hand.

Feel free to discuss further.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (38 hours later)

I have tried masturbating by hand.it took great difficulty for me but the difference what I felt was that even though ejaculation came
,it was lacking white colour or sperms.what is the possible way to correct doctor.as doctor prescribed i could control time and I feel less tired than earlier mode

Answered by Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (7 hours later)

Brief Answer:
do not pay attention to semen

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for follow up.

It is not possible that there can be difference between ejaculation of prone and hand masturbation. What you have told, 'lacking white colour or sperms' is pre seminal fluid. It is couper's gland secretion which comes out for lubrication during arousal before actual intercourse. You should continue masturbation after that also and then you can have orgasm with ejaculation of white-yellow semen.

Of course with hand you feel very less tired than prone masturbation. Practice makes the man perfect. Avoid prone masturbation and do hand masturbation regularly and gradually you will master it.

Take care dear.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar