Unable To Concentrate On Studies And Understands All Other Topics. Suggest A Solution?
 
                                    
                                    
                                          
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                                            Question : 
Hello Dr,
My son is studying in 2nd year engineering,(Repeating the course),But not performing even now,He was a distinction student in 10th and 12th, Pl suggest us, Except academics he studies all the topics and also understands well,Kindly sugest us .
Parent
                            Hello Dr,
My son is studying in 2nd year engineering,(Repeating the course),But not performing even now,He was a distinction student in 10th and 12th, Pl suggest us, Except academics he studies all the topics and also understands well,Kindly sugest us .
Parent
                                    Brief Answer:
some discussion needed
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Such an intelligent boy why should he fail in engineering?????!!!!!!
1 may be he does not like the course and he is forced to take it.
2. Does he stay in the hostel ? If so check on his room mates, his close associates ,etc to Ind out whether he is distracted by them.
3 look for signs of addiction to drugs etc.
4 if at home and bound to his room he any be diverted by. TV ,web browsing?
5 Any thing in home environment affecting his studies.
Pl concentrate on point no 2.
Talk to him like a friend kindly.
Ask whether he would like to shift his course or college?
Good luck
God bless
Dr Uma
                                    
                            some discussion needed
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Such an intelligent boy why should he fail in engineering?????!!!!!!
1 may be he does not like the course and he is forced to take it.
2. Does he stay in the hostel ? If so check on his room mates, his close associates ,etc to Ind out whether he is distracted by them.
3 look for signs of addiction to drugs etc.
4 if at home and bound to his room he any be diverted by. TV ,web browsing?
5 Any thing in home environment affecting his studies.
Pl concentrate on point no 2.
Talk to him like a friend kindly.
Ask whether he would like to shift his course or college?
Good luck
God bless
Dr Uma
 Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
                              
                            
                                  
                                      Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
                                  
                              
                                         
 
                                    
                                    
                                
 
                                    Have talked to him in many ways,friendly,pampering,anger etc He assures of scoring always, But not showing improvement. Tells lot of lies,pl suggest and guide me for some consultancy in bangalore,Yeshwantpur
                                
                            
                                    Brief Answer:
keep trying
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Sorry
I am from Chennai.
If you see the net. Or. Go to any big hospital them may give you the contact number of councillors.
Nimhans also may help.
I can understand your situation but a similar experience with one of my relatives where the mother sitting with her son herself and not leaving him in the hostel,
and taking personal intervention helped .!!!
It is a mental torture for parents but pl keep trying !
Good luck
Dr Uma
                                    
                                    
                                    
                                    
                                    
                            keep trying
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Sorry
I am from Chennai.
If you see the net. Or. Go to any big hospital them may give you the contact number of councillors.
Nimhans also may help.
I can understand your situation but a similar experience with one of my relatives where the mother sitting with her son herself and not leaving him in the hostel,
and taking personal intervention helped .!!!
It is a mental torture for parents but pl keep trying !
Good luck
Dr Uma
 Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
                              
                            
                                  
                                      Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
                                  
                              
                                         
 
                                    
                                    
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