Brief Answer:
She needs regular medicine
Detailed Answer:
hello & welcome to HCM!
I have read your query and understand that you are concerned about your wife's illness. she has stopped medicine and now you give it to her with food, irregularly..she has altered behaviour, is moody, irritable, and sometimes thinks that she is hearing voices.
1.From my clinical experience I can say that your wife definitely needs medicine.
2.When some one who needs psychiatric drugs dosent take it or is unwilling at times, or not responding to oral medicines, we go for depot preparations. In depot pereparatinons an
antipsychotic is given Intra muscularly : once in a week to once in a month basis, as per response. Here there is no problem of giving daily medicine, or missing dose, the drug acts for these many days by slowing releasing itself from the injection site. Your doctor will know about them.
3. She will definitely get better with medicine, as your query mentions, the symptoms she is currently having ( hearing when no one is surround, shouting and fighting irrelevantly, may be gets some suspiciousness,) appear to be due to relapse of illness.
4. she is not ready to go to doctor, but somehow you have to manage this, may be by taking help of other family member, or of someone whom she still listens too. There is no point in giving medicine one day and not on the other day, it should go in her body daily ( only then you can get good response).
5. If she stops taking the medicine altogether then I'm afraid to say that illness will almost certainly flair up and she might harm herself or others...and finally you may need to hospitalise her .
6. with medicine been given regularly, one usually start seeing some response in one - two weeks, and good response in about a month. With continuous drug intake, there is continuos improvement till a person almost comes to normal functioning. from the query I think she will need the medicine for life, (may be in a lower does). when she is on regular medicine and getting better, she can go for her work...there is usually no problem with patient's working when they are on adequate drugs.
Hope the reply helps you
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Dr. Manisha Gopal
MD Psychiatry