What Are The Side Effects Of Massage Oils?

Posted on Sat, 22 Nov 2014

Question: I got married 2-1/2 yrs back & we have a son & my sex life is also ok. During intercourse with my partner, some times I feel of early discharge. I mean, want to extend the duration little bit. I see lots of quick remedy medicines like diff massage oils, ayurvedic tabs claiming no side effects. But I want to ask (1) probably I may be wrong, I have no issue, just seeking for sake of extra pleasure. (2) Even if I use some of these medicines like dabur shilajeet gold, do they pose any adverse affect. (3) My wife has also dry-up issue, can we use any gel, pl advice also. Pl advice me in that perspective so that I can regularize my sex life in appropriate manner not just for extra pleasure.

Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (55 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
They are free of side effects

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for using healthcaremagic.

I read your query and understand your concerns.

First thing I like to inform you that shilajeet and most of other ayurvedic stuff is claimed that they are without side effects and there is ample reason to claim so. None of the study carried till date found any serious reactions or adverse effect related to ayurvedic medications. So it can be said that they are free of side effects when taken under guidance of expert. I am making this statement because people tend to think that whatever dose they take it is safe. Please note down that only dose recommended by expert is safe.

Secondly regarding early ejaculation, I like to tell you that for once a while it is ok. If you get this problem almost everyday than there is need to do something.
You can prevent early ejaculation by practicing Kegel exercise. This exercise strengthens the muscle which is involved with ejaculation. You need to do it least 20-30 three times a day. You can search about them on the internet to learn how to do them.

Thirdly the dryness issue indicates there is lack of foreplay. I advice you to focus more on foreplay during sexual intercourse. Despite paying enough attention to foreplay, if the problem persists you can use durex gel for proper lubrication.

Hope I am able to answer your concerns.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for me, so that I get a good feedback.
Thanks and regards

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Ashwin Bhandari

Follow up: Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (4 hours later)

Sir, i am trying to learn kegel exercise, finding difficult to locate PE muscle. Can Long lasting condoms available in market be used on a regular basis without any fear?

Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (10 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Condoms can be used on regular basis

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for reverting back to me.

I am happy to know that you have tried the kegel's. For identification of muscle just go to bathroom for urine and stop urine. The muscle which stops the stream of urine is the muscle you need to target. I am sure with repeated attempt you will able to do it.

Regarding condoms there is no side effects other than allergy. If you are not allergic to latex used for condoms than that is the one of best option for lasting longer without much effort and without any side effects. But please be aware that few of people do not like the idea of using condoms due to decreased sensation during sex.

Kegel is the one which will take time but will give you results that are long lasting and without paying a single paisa.

"If you do not have any clarifications, you can close the discussion and rate the answer.
Wish you good health".
Thanks and regards

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Bhagyalaxmi Nalaparaju